did you enjoy your love life?..
December 12, 2008 4:15am CST
did you enjoy?.. me not so!..im hurt you know!.. hehehehehehehe.,., can you help me?..(never mind!..) does love hurts?..obviously!.,., God Bless!..
12 Dec 08
hi..... Im very happy with my love life,because my husband is a very loving person, but you know what,before i met him, my lovelife is so complicated. its normal to be hurt because of love.. the more you hurt the more you learn to grow,the more lessen the pain... just like me,i was really hurt when we broke up my first boyfriend, but i've learned so many things in life,i became stronger than before, and right now,i can say that i can handle things right,and i understand that its a normal thing when it happens to you.. When your inlove,you are blind in so many things, the bad thing is, your giving up everything just to be loved, then you will find out that is not worth it to love that someone,and they dont deserved your love. sooner you will realized what's the right and wrong.. just always think that its a matter of choice and its not the end of the world when you get hurt.. hope this will help you..
12 Dec 08
Love hurts, if the person you love, hurts you.. Its not easy to be hurt by your boyfriend or girlfriend. You'll go crazy and do stuffs that you never thought you can do. I was hurt a couple of times by my hubby when we were just boyfriend and girlfriend, but, I was just so crazy inlove with him, that I stick to him. My self confidence, self respect and everything in my life before were shattered but now that i have recovered and have gained what ive lost, I'll tell myself, "what i was thinking before?" or "what the heck! did i do that before?" But you know what, everything that happened to me before, taught me a lesson and how to be a better person. Remember this: Love yourself first before loving others. Dont give all the love you have for her/him. Always leave something for yourself.
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12 Dec 08
i think anyone who has truly loved has conversely felt the pain and the heartache that loss of love or unrequited love can bring. It's like that saying about how the sweet isn't as sweet without the sour - or something like that. The world we know is set up so that in order to experience the joy of love we have to experience pain because to truly understand love - you have to understand what love is not. it's good for perspective at least, and sometimes we grow and learn so much through our pain. those are just boring words that can't really make you feel any better, but I am sorry to hear that you're hurting. Just know that one door doesn't close without another one opening, and your heart is just getting itself prepared to really completely appreciate the love that the universe is sending your way! Just remember how exciting that is, and let yourself feel the pain.
12 Jan 09
I am sorry to hear that.But to be hurt is quite normal if you love someone.Sometimes we have expectation that didn't meet that's why we got hurt but as they say,life must move on.About my love life,i am enjoying it.My hubby loves me so much so do i.Even if we are very far from each other,i can stay that i am still happy to have him,that i am still in love with him.
12 Dec 08
I do enjoy my love life. I think that happiness and enjoyment at something, be it love life or not, is a matter of choice. Some people, including myself, go through a certain stage in life where and when we become heartbroken. I have been through that and I thought that time that I will forever carry that hurt inside my hurt. But then, I was healed not because my friends and family were there during my times of sorrow, but also because I helped myself recover from that agony. Love really hurts. It is not always a bed of roses. Sometimes, we need to be hurt so that we will learn from it and be better persons and partner. You can do it! It all takes a matter of time to heal. God bless you too.