Threesome Galor?

United States
December 12, 2008 10:19pm CST
Putting all regligous beliefs aside, how would you feel about a threesome? Would you want to have a threesome? Would you kill your lover if they aksed if you wanted to have a threasome? Would you even go with more than just a threesome, but maybe a foursome or even more? How would you feel if you had a threesome with people you didn't know? Or would it have to be with a couple already, or friends? You have a story to tell? Tells us your experiences and/or thoughs. I have never personally had one, but I don't think I would object to not having one. I mean I will try anything at least once. If I was to have one, it would have to be with people I know.
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@RitaGreen (141)
• United States
13 Dec 08
Interesting that I should find this here! I have wanted to discuss this with someone for a while! But no one seems to want to talk about such "taboo" things!! I don't know about others, but I have wanted to try that. Or maybe even a foursome. I've often wondered how many people actually want to and are afraid to try. Although I haven't tried one, the thought has been on my mind. I think having one would have to be with people you know and trust very well. After all, using discretion would be the wisest choice! I'd be happy knowing my lover trusted and loved me that much! As a matter fact, I know he does! We may have the opportunity in the next couple of months...and if we do, I'll let you know!!! It seems to me that people often shy away from such discussions and if you're talking to them face to face, you sometimes still see a little spark of interest in their eyes! My lover and I have talked of this many, many times and are trying to make this particular fantasy a reality... We are looking for a particular type of person and hope that whoever that may be, will want this as much as we do. Good luck in your venture should you pursue it! Hope to talk to you again. (and Merry Christmas!)
@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
Wow! So you're really going to give it a go soon huh? How will it be? I mean, 2 boys - 1 girl? or 2 girls - 1 boy? I have to agree with you on this, some people just shy away from it but there's a hint of curiosity somewhere within them. I don't see it coming to me anytime soon because people here are kind of conservative so... *shrugs.
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• United States
13 Dec 08
at least your honest. Most people don't like to talk about stuff like in this discussion, but I got tired of the same old discussions so i figured "why not?" I agree with you, if you two love each other enough then it should not matter to you two if you are with one other ( or two or three and so forth) others at the same time. I mean you are both there anyway right? I am also intrigued like modstar how would it go for you? 2 boys? 2 girls? what? maybe swapping buddies?
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@modstar (9616)
• Philippines
13 Dec 08
I don't mind really. It's ok with me if we're two boys. That would be interesting for the lady hehe.. She'll be busy. Two ladies against me will mean me needing lots of energy drink lol!
• United States
14 Dec 08
I would have a threesome only if I was NOT in a serious relationship. But if I had a threesome with my boyfriend and another woman, I would not be able to stand seeing her touch him. And if I had a threesome with my boyfriend and another man, I would feel uncomfortable with my boyfriend seeing him touch me.
• United States
14 Dec 08
I fully agree, if I had to decide when to have a threesome, it would never bein a steady relationship. I mean so many different emotions can be changed and it just would not feel right, UNLESS you both like doing stuff like that, and agree on certain terms then maybe it would be ok. What would be your preference if you was not in a serious relationship? and would it have to be with people you knew, or peopel you did not know?
• United States
16 Dec 08
yea I know what you mean, and also at least if you know them you know where they have been and stuff of that sort.
@sharra1 (6344)
• Australia
14 Dec 08
I have done a threesome with my partner and another girl. I liked it. This was a planned event with a girl we both liked. It has to be that way. There must be affection and trust between all the people involved for it to be a happy loving encounter. We invited another girl to be with us and we were all good friends. Not many girls can do this as they get too jealous you really have to trust your partner and be happy with it. I can do it as I am not the jealous type. I love my partner and I know he loves me I am open to other people. I have no wish to have other men but I am open to other women coming in.
• United States
14 Dec 08
open to other women eh? yea same here. i will [/b]never[b] share hehe...but if more than one girl wants to join them im all in, the more the merrier.
@zelnut (40)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
4 Jan 14
I never got another woman as I wasn;t ready for it but my wife, I dont know where she got this concept, was very much looking forward to try it. and I asked what's the so expereince thing that she feels after doing it and she says it's the way of having it and opening her legs to another man which is something she wanted to try.
@ronaldinu (12454)
• Malta
13 Dec 08
Threesome is a fantasy for most men but it would ruin a marriage if it is put into practice. You will lose faith in your spouse or vice versa. I am not in favour of putting it into practice.
• United States
14 Dec 08
yea...really bad idea for married people...unless you both are like kinky like that then it would only be fair if you did another couple I suppose.
@zelnut (40)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
4 Jan 14
faith depends on the couples. I have let my wife talk to them after the session over the phone, but I never felt she is going to cheat on me. they turned out to be good friends afterwords and we often meet.
@laglen (19783)
• United States
13 Dec 08
I like to be open in this but extra people I draw the line. Possibly in a casual relationship, but not where I am now. I think it leaves it too open for jealousy and a whole lot of problems. Now I certainly don't mind other people doing this, as long all are consenting.
• United States
13 Dec 08
oh I understand that to the fullest. If you don't want to start a war and a huge catfight, keep what you already got. Ha ha! Thanks for the response.
@zelnut (40)
• Dubai, United Arab Emirates
4 Jan 14
The big fact in my relationship is that my wife knows different men have different sizes and different styles, and that's what she exactly asked for.
@LCHBheart (167)
• Singapore
13 Dec 08
It's always been a dream to live in sin with Twins...
• United States
13 Dec 08
oh yes! May I ask what kind of twins? Like asians? what? Personally I wouldn't mind getting my hands ( and body) on a pair , or triplets for that matter of asian identicals...that would be so great. I would be like in an Austin Powers Movie.
@taface412 (3177)
• United States
13 Dec 08
I do not go into details in this area, but I will say that I have had offers and have listened to many people's stories concerning this matter....and all I have to say on this matter is there are some things that are better left to the imagination. And if anyone ever does it....it's like the advice you always hear about friends becoming roommates...it's better to not know the people...initimacy changes how people act towards and even look at others....this I will say I felt uncomfortable around the friends that did make the offers after I said no. As for stories....I'll leave that for maybe a little saucy part of my stories that I write....
• United States
13 Dec 08
I know what you mean, it does change your outlook , not only the other person but it changes who you are. some things are better to leave for yoru imagination. I think I would still at least try it at least once to see if I liked it or not. Of course, it would be with two girls that I didn't know so that way I would not change my own outlook on things.
@TessWhite (3147)
• United States
13 Dec 08
Years ago I was 39 and for a short time I was invovled with a guy who was 26. We knew it wouldn't last, but it was fun for the moment. Well one day he asked if I wanted him to bring one of his good looking buddies along that night. I was rather surprised and I know I was blushing as he sat there looking at me. I quietly said no. But, I always wondered what that would be like. LOL But, I think I'm too much of an old fashioned person that I couldn't go thru with that idea.
• United States
13 Dec 08
yea, i know what you mean, old fashion is just how they was brought up to believe, and that will never change them, there is nothing wrong with that. Heck, my great aunt still uses a typewriter and/or pen and paper over a computer, and she owns a good computer too.
@jambi462 (4599)
• United States
13 Dec 08
I would love to have a threesome I think that would be a beneificial thing for everyone to partake in. I love expanding my sexuality and my sensuality and I also love the feel of skin. I would go for more than a threesome I would go for as much as I can, I don't know maybe I'm a weirdo but I just like being naked and seeing other people naked. I would always have my girlfriend as part of the somes though.
@goodtogo (150)
• Pakistan
13 Dec 08
I dont think i would like 3 sum,i fell its discusting dont know may be its good:) but as far of my imagination i'm not comfortable with it
• United States
13 Dec 08
That's cool some people are like, and there is nothing wrong with that. I mean some people don't like to share, other's don't. Some just like it 1 on 1. I used to be like that.
@vanonas (950)
• United States
13 Dec 08
I don't think I'd ever have a threesome. I don't think I'm enough for myself to let my boyfriend and see my boyfriend with another girl. Call me crazy! I'd be upset if he ever asked me to participate in one and probably ask him why he would want one? But I think if I ever participated in one it would only be once and with strangers so I wouldn't be bothered by the fact that my boyfriend saw a friend of mine naked or something. I sound like a psycho girlfriend. I'm not though!
• United States
13 Dec 08
I see what you mean by that, I wouldn't want to have others see me either ( okay as a guy I guess I would but I know I what you mean at any rate). You said if you was to have one you would still do it with strangers. Would there be a preference with the sexes? Remember all religious beliefs aside.