How to make a straight girl fall in love with a lesbian?

@tiohwji (133)
Philippines
December 13, 2008 8:35pm CST
My lesbian friend really likes my cousin and my cousin don't want to get involve in any homosexual relationship. my friend is really desperate and I really pity her. So for the straight girls out there, what are the possibility that you can get to like or fall in love with a lesbian?
5 responses
@esantra (84)
• United States
15 Dec 08
I think we need a real lesbian for this question. Aren't there any real lesbians out there? I can only give you so much advice. I am strictly straight. Tried it once, wasn't for me. Only a real lesbian could tell a straight girl how to fall in love. That is my advice. Ask another real lesbian if this is possible, and how to go about doing it. Also, tell your friend to do it herself. It is not your job.
• United States
18 Dec 08
Maybe she should try online dating. It is easy to "order" up dates. Maybe she can find someone else there?
• United States
14 Dec 08
If she's really straight and really doesn't not want to be in a relationship with a girl then I don't see any hope for a relationship between the two. I just don't think it's possible. If she's straight, she's straight. I'd tell your friend to move on and find someone else to date.
@tiohwji (133)
• Philippines
14 Dec 08
hmmn. i've already told her that but she got a lot of hope. i really want to punch her real hard on the face so that she can realize that. i asked her to find sum1 else but she said she don't want any other girl but my cousin alone. what a hopeless romantic, right?
@esantra (84)
• United States
14 Dec 08
My friend was a lesbian for years, and then she turned straight. They could hang out together, but if the girl is hardcore straight, the lesbian doesn't stand a chance. If the lesbian wanted the straight girl, I think she should approach it like an experiment. "Hey, do you wanna try...., just to see how it feels?". This would kinda keep the heat off of her. Don't knock it until you try it.
@tiohwji (133)
• Philippines
14 Dec 08
yeah, my cousin is hardcore straight but never had a boyfriend. I told my friend that they can be friends but my friend don't like the idea. Its all or nothing. it's really hard to be the mediator.
• United States
14 Dec 08
If your cousin is strictly straight then it will be as likely for a straight man to change the lesbian into a straight woman. It would not be against the rules for the cousin and the lesbian to be friend. And as was mentioned, ask the cousin if she would like to experiment. As long as the cousin is OK with it then it is OK but if the cousin says stop, the lesbian needs to take her at her words and stop trying. Why ruin a friendship.
• United States
14 Dec 08
Your friend is barking up the wrong tree. If your cousin doesn't like girls then there's nothing that either of you can do to make her a lesbian. You really need to tell your friend to find someone else because there's no chance of that happening.