Is it worth it to date a girl with low self esteem?

United States
December 13, 2008 11:58pm CST
I have dated girls that have low self esteem and let me tell you now. It's annoying. Every day you get to hear them down themselves and when they do, you have to think of a cheesy little compliment to help them out. Strong women who believe they are beautiful is the way to go guys! I am going to give this a no. Let someone else date a low self esteem girl that is constantly ruining conversations with her depressing words towards herself.
2 responses
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
14 Dec 08
would u rather have a confident ugly or fat girl or a beautiful girl with low self esteem? my sis is a big girl, but she's very confident and has a pretty face, she's never had a problem getting guys, i have a thin friend who is ok looking but with very low self esteem and she can't seem to get a guy! i think a girl with low self esteem may cause drama n will probably be jealous all the time of other girls.
• United States
14 Dec 08
That is a scenario I see often. A lot of skinny girls have multiple problems all stemming from their low self esteem. Thanks for the response!
@mgmagana (3621)
• United States
14 Dec 08
thanks for BR!
• India
14 Dec 08
It's all very good for you, TrayBlaylock, who perhaps gets a way to every woman's heart by your good looks, your attitude or whatever else that you may have. But you know, I personally feel that girls who think highly of their beauty are more likely to reject a proposal point blank. They don't consider many guys to be worthy of their company. I'm not of course, supporting the depressed girls. They are an utter bore. But I'd rather prefer a girl who isn't concerned about her beauty at all. Rather, she should be interested in enjoying the time with me. Just a viewpoint. Cheers.
• United States
14 Dec 08
Now, now, let's not talk about my stunning look and girl catching charm now. This is a discussion on girls with low self esteem. I'm kidding about myself. Half kidding. Thanks for the response nonetheless and let's keep the subject on these, apparently boring girls with low self esteem.