I seeing your ex-girlfriend who is now married an adulterous act?

Philippines
December 14, 2008 11:43pm CST
I had an ex-girlfriend who is now married and has a child. After three years of not having communications with her, suddenly she called up and told me that she wanted to see me. She said she is not happy with her husband. I am confused. Should I see her or not?
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@laydee (12815)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
First, how do you feel about it? Was the break-up a good one? or were there unfinished businesses in both sides? Why did she say she want to meet you? If I were you, I wouldn't meet her. It's obvious she's trying to hurt her relationship more by going back to her past relationships. You can't solve your problems by another problem right? So, don't meet her, you'll just be her escape and both would be guilty in the end. Let her fix her problem. Marriage life isn't something you'd escape on if there are problems.
@Gesusdid (1683)
• United States
15 Dec 08
totally agree with you on that , she can see you on the PHONE !! a couple of phone calls to catch up with eachother " Hi how you doing ? " Whats your life like ?" blah blah ..bs ..at least keep those conversations at a minuum or a tolerant level ...and if your thinking "oh we can get back together" NOOOOO!! , dont , cause if she gets back with you than down the line she'll cheat on YOU just like she cheated on her husband ...
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@laydee (12815)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
I agree, maybe she truly has cheating tendencies, and you're her next prey if you agree to meeting. There's nothing more confusing than to get involved in these affairs.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
15 Dec 08
I don't think so you should see her if you still have some feelings for her. Just not to add up trouble or problems. Remember she is already married and has one child. Maybe you can just talk to her in the phone and could give advice. Have a nice day to you!
@achinthya (1219)
• India
15 Dec 08
Yes, you can go and meet her as an old friend but not as a lover talk with her and try to make her understand that she has to live for her child now not for herself but listen to her problems too and give her solution.
@sid556 (31018)
• United States
15 Dec 08
I would not get involved in that one. She is married and you would be putting yourself in the middle of a situation that would not be good. It sounds as if you are still interested in her. If I were you, I'd tell her to call again when she actually gets a divorce. If not you also could be setting yourself up for heartbreak as well. You don't want to be just a re-bound do you?
@Gesusdid (1683)
• United States
15 Dec 08
Hellz no , STOP right there and move along , ignore her invite , those feelings might be coming back and all but thats nothing but Lust inside , and shes not to be trusted , all of sudden she sees you and didnt call you in 3yrs ???, why call you now ? she could have called you anyother time of the days within those 3yrs but ohhh something magically changed her mind recently ?lol psshhhh , do yourself a favor and move along and ignore her..