~~~do you trust the people around you.?~~~

China
December 17, 2008 5:41am CST
I find the world have changed a lot. the people are more difficult to get along with. year ago, I was young and I trust the people around me very much. but now, I am very confussed. I can see the true heart of people,so I became more cautious.and this let me feel uncomfortable. People often say don't trust stranges , I don't know whether we should trust people around us? what do you think so, expect you sharing.thanx.
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@bamakelly (5194)
• United States
17 Dec 08
To be perfectly honest about this question I do find it hard to find trust too much anymore. I used to be a pretty naive person when it cam to trusting everyone until I was betrayed in one way or another. I have become guarded as a result in my dealings with people in general. I wish that it didn't have to be this way but I feel like I have been forced into feeling that I have to watch how I trust anyone and I need to pick my friends carefully. As a rule I don't really make too many friends. I have moved around quite a bit in my life and usually meet new people all the time but I am not able to hold too many sustaining friendships anyway. I have always really wanted to have friends or associates that I can rely on and trust when I want to confide something. I used to tell a lot of personal things to people but I feel now that I could be judged for revealing some of the things I have done. I sometimes wonder if anyone really cares about my feelings. I do like myLot though. There are some good people here willing to give advice and listen and that is important to me. I hope this site remains open for a long time. Take care.
• China
18 Dec 08
thanks for your kindness. you are a nice person.I read it from your article.lol happy mylotting.
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@leeapollo (611)
• China
18 Dec 08
frankly speaking. I want to trust the people around me, but I can't do that. you know, the people around , every one is unique ,they have different characters. one should not have the heart to harm others , but should have the heart not to be harmed by others.lol just as an old saying. in drawing a tiger , you draw its skink but not its bones, in knowing a man ,you know his face but not his heart. so , cautious is the first policy.lol happy mylotting.
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@jambi462 (4598)
• United States
17 Dec 08
It's hard to trust people when there are so many fake people and liars out there. I've been around people like this and they are big downers and sometimes they are just plain unbelievable. Now I've surrounded myself with people that I can trust though. It's good to have people that you can rely on in your extreme times of need and I also like to help out the people that help me in any way that I can.
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