love during a student life...

@harsha27 (205)
India
December 18, 2008 2:00am CST
one my frnd fell in love with a girl in his student life, indeed he was a topper, of my class,from that day onwords he roamed on streets for that girl, finally he got accepted for his great deeds, however it took 1 year for the process, he enjoyed with that girl for antother year...in the mean while 4 semisters passed and he failed in 10 sujects, he ruined his carrier...so i am in dilema ....is love needed at the student level???
5 responses
• India
18 Dec 08
damn! that is not worth it... cuz somtiems love is not forever btu the study we do and hte grades we get are forever i wish he hadnt done tht and im suer he wishes the same! happy lotting and have a nice day!
@harsha27 (205)
• India
19 Dec 08
yah he had not done that, i too wish it however it happened, yah grades are forever..anyhow love may also ve forever may ve these are complementary most of the times, what do u think ?
• India
19 Dec 08
love is a hard thing to keep!
@wendy82 (437)
• United States
18 Dec 08
It really shouldnt matter if you need love or not. Because school is the education that can get you the job you really want. To me your diploma for any degree is going to be with you all the time but love comes and goes. You shouldnt let a relationship interfere in school work. Then if you are failing then you need to choose what is best for you. To me school would be more needed then having a girlfriend or boyfriend. So no love is not really needed in a student life.
@harsha27 (205)
• India
19 Dec 08
yah wat u said is totally true, will it ve possile? i think it will ve an ideal case, very few are like that, u r so nice to ve like that, hw can we divert our mind to studies..can u provide some tips?
@wendy82 (437)
• United States
19 Dec 08
I would say limit your time with the partner and other people. Make a guideline of when project are due and start working ahead so that you dont get behind. Study hard for the test. Study in a group or something. Make a list of things that must need to be done. And when you are studying make sure you have everything that you need to study with and do it in a quiet room. If you need help with a subject get a tutor. Making sure that you are paying attention in class. Because sometime the teacher says things in class and then they want to see if you are playing attention and they can give pop quiz and test to make sure and to see who is actually studying or not. I think partner would understand that school is important to you and that they can make plans to do something with you and you can arrange it in your busy schedule.
• Germany
18 Dec 08
Hi, harsha. I think this really depends on individuals. I'm sorry to hear about your friend's case. Some people can handle love relationship during their study life but some people cannot. For sure, if you are single, you have no worries about anything that might happen in the love relationship. Then you could totally focus and put all your efforts and time into your studies. But when you have a partner, you must be good at time management, because you have to manage your love and studies at the same time, besides, you must also have time for your friends too, otherwise your friends will complain about it. This is not really easy. I admit that love somehow influence my studies abit. I'm an emotional person, so my mood swings when something happen in our relationship, and that influence my studies. But i've already tried my best to maintain my results. Also, i'm happy to have my partner, he is such a lovely person. I can't imagine what my life will be without him. Anyway, it's better to think twice before having a relationship during your study life. Have a nice day and happy mylotting!
@harsha27 (205)
• India
18 Dec 08
i am pleased with ur response, yah its right that we have to think twice when we r going to commit, however love is a thing which can cover our thoghts..any how i will surely try to thik twice ....u r so lcuky to have a such a person as ur partner..wish u happy life ....
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• Germany
18 Dec 08
Hi harsha. I'm glad that my response pleased you. I would like to express my gratitude for giving me the best response, i'm happy to get that. Yes, it's always good to think twice before making any decisions. Surely love can make our life colourful, it's all about how we regard it. There is no right or wrong. Costs and benefits depend on individuals as well. All the best for you! And don't worry be happy...
@cybersoft01 (1287)
• India
18 Dec 08
You have already seen the conclusion of love in student life. You have given the example and you are asking if you should follow the same path as one of your friends did.
@harsha27 (205)
• India
18 Dec 08
ofcourse one of my frnds case was like that, his life influenced me a lot,i alos had the frnds whose life is different from him, as the former is very closer if influenced me a lot..
@nanayangel (7691)
• Philippines
18 Dec 08
Hi there Harsha! i believe that it's case to case basis. It depends upon the personality, the foundation, the values of the person to get involved in a relationship. Some people can handle it and still go with the set priorities before the relationship and some can't. Some can balance both but to some, other aspects of their life is likely to suffer.
@harsha27 (205)
• India
18 Dec 08
so u think that it depends on the personality of a person...could u give an advise in genral with the cases like this...(love during studies)..