should i move on?

Philippines
December 19, 2008 6:06am CST
actually, i'm planning to do this because my classmate (the one i told you before) who i like has someone who likes him. It was really obvious last Christmas party because the girl really was very happy and etc. She was the one who gave him a present in the exchange gift. I am not really sure of his feelings though, but then hell I just want to disappear right after that moment. I really pretended that I was so happy and stuff even if its the opposite. What's worse is that this classmate/friend who i like often calls me to show off his food and stuff. I also don't want to act like i "like" him so i just ignored him. I'm so tired coz he always teases me and even tells it eagerly to our common friends. It was our last meeting for vacation and then another thing, he group messaged through the cp something about the gift and talking to the girl...uggg why does he have to?? so don't you think it's reasonable that i move on? Sometimes he just sends mixed signals! one moment you'll think he likes you, the next is you'll feel you're the most left out!..
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@kun2349 (23475)
• Singapore
19 Dec 08
It's really time to move on.. DUn wait anymore.. MAybe he's just using u, and like u say, he just likes to be in the company of gals.. And do u think if the two of u really end up together, will he change this habit of his, for u?? I dun think so.. So instead of hurting yourself further, and making him happy, u should move on.. DUn go deeper into it and hurt yourself even more.. It's not worth it..
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• Philippines
20 Dec 08
thanks a lot for that
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@rsa101 (13336)
• Philippines
14 Jan 09
Well I guess the thing is I guess it's time to move on if you think the game is over for you and her. But the thing is have you tried to express your feeling for her the least. Sometimes you just need to express your feelings to get to know what her real sentiments about you. In your situation, you are about to give up on something you are not sure yet. Although she has chosen at this time but then again before you can really move on there must be a so called closure on things and one way is to express your feelings about what yourself for her.
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@thanxiang (126)
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
If i were you,i have to move on and wait if he's really the right one for me.There are many men who are worthy of your worth.Just be happy always and stay clean and pretty and have a good attitude and not impossible that some men might notice you.If he's the one for you,then time will find a way for it.Just don't be in a hurry.If you are still studying,then why not focus on study first rather than that?
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• Philippines
19 Dec 08
I really wish I could advise you on this but I really don't know what else is going on. if you only know if he feels the same way or if there's any possibility for the two of you because if you know that he doesn't feel the same for you then I would advise you to forget about him and just move on because there is no point in waiting or fighting for a man who can never love you back, there's like a billion of single men out there and girl, try not to look for someone within your campus because it'll affect your studies more than it should. enjoy life! there's more fun than being stuck with a boy, go out with your friends.
• Philippines
25 Jan 09
it did happen to me before i got a crush on my classmate in high school. And even after college i still like him. though we are friends and hang with the same group. but it never really prospers into something. our friends teases us and one day i just woke up and realizes that im falling for him. when he knew it i really avoid him. im really so embarrased about it. knowing that he will never ever love me more than a friend. i tried to forget him and move on with my life. i busied myself just to forget him. i still hangout with our group we are still friends. i tried to act as if everything okay but it really hurts me. but our friends told me that he also have feelings for me. but he never really tried to make me feel that he also like me. so one day i just gave it up. at present we are still friends. but my feelings for him is not the same way back a decade ago.:) why dont you date and go out...it can really help to forget someone.