what will u do if ur boy/girlfriend having an affair with someone else?

Malaysia
December 19, 2008 8:41am CST
i will think again about our ralationship...
6 responses
• Philippines
21 Dec 08
men are polygamous, it is so hard to find a faithful partner. We need to talk about our relationship and if he keeps on insisting that he is innocent well it will be nonsense to talk to him
@sk66rc (4261)
• United States
24 Dec 08
That's interesting because I'm a man & I've never cheated on my girl friend... Whomever I'm with at the time, that's the only person I'm with... I've been with my current girl friend for 6 years now & I've never had an earge to find or have another girl & I've been with my ex for 9 years & all that time, I've never had an earge to seek out another partner... However, I've known few people who's girl friends & wives have cheated on them... I guess women are polygamous, too...
@sk66rc (4261)
• United States
24 Dec 08
-corrections- Urges, not earges...
@sk66rc (4261)
• United States
24 Dec 08
I do believe trust is one of the most important part of the relationship... Once it's broken, it's very hard to get that back into the relationship... I would move on from the relationship... If my girl friend isn't getting what she needs from the relationship with me & have to look for it or get it from the outside of our relationship, then she can look for it on her own...
• United States
21 Dec 08
hands down once a cheater always a cheater.......
@aakay4u (799)
• India
20 Dec 08
simple walk out of the relationship which was never meant to be and would have thanked myself got to know.no patch up efforts etc simply get out of it.would have felt upset for sometime though.
@Frederick42 (2019)
• Canada
20 Dec 08
I would not bother about it.
• Philippines
19 Dec 08
let him/her explain first why he/she did that?.. if you think its not reasonable, then break up with him/her.. your relationship is not healthy anymore.. there are many fish in the sea.. :) find someone else that could love you more..