If you're in a boring relationship, what will you do to spice things up?
December 20, 2008 10:19am CST
I'm in a relationship but I can't really say that it's far from boring. But then, I'd like to know how other people/couple spice things up in their relationships. I'm also wondering if spending too much time with each other can make a relationship boring. I want to learn more about this. I find this topic really interesting. Share you thoughts, people. edel of http://www.edelweiza.com
21 Dec 08
i really dont know the solution bout it at the moment, because me n my man r in that situation. n it has been like this, cold love, since 3 weeks ago. there's none of us trying to spice it up, i dont know tho. but i feel so tired to try again, im hoping he will realize that its about time for him to try. im tired really..so ehm, im sorry if i cant share how coz i think i need it myself =) have a nice day edelweiza =)
21 Dec 08
Yes, you could try to have a time-off from each other, not a long one but just spend a few days without seeing each other. Maybe part of the reason it has become dry is the fact that you are together most of the time which leaves no space for both of you. Unlike if you are away, you will have new things to talk about. I think a relationship becomes a bore if you keep on doing the same things. Nothing new is introduced in the relationship, so my advise is, try something different. You can plan a dream vacation. You can pick an activity that you can do together - something that both of you suck at. Plan a different dinner. Cook for her...etc... Think this may work.