for your love

India
December 21, 2008 12:38am CST
think a situation you loved some one too much but due to circumstances you couldn't marry her/him.but there is real love between both of you. what would be reaction if he/she meet you after both got married.
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• United States
21 Dec 08
It seems like my boyfriend and I will never be getting married when his family just doesn't want it, heck they won't even let my boyfriend grow up.
• India
21 Dec 08
no no!! never think like that if you have not married then don't care.dump this world at any cost and marry your boyfriend at any cost. i tell you, you will too much happy after marriage.do you love your boyfriend too much then give me a proof.
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• United States
21 Dec 08
I love my boyfriend, and he is a nice guy, but marriage is not for any of us. His family and my family are well known for divorces and for martial issues. My boyfriend's father, for example, drives his wife nuts. She cannot stand him and she cannot understand why she ever married him because he treats her like dirt. I hope that my boyfriend would never do that to me. I know that if we get married, there is a chance that it would seriously change us both.
• Philippines
21 Dec 08
I will accept the fact that we are not really meant and move on. That's life. We just need to move on always. Anyways, God has another plan for you. It's not yet the end of life. Right?
• India
21 Dec 08
yeeeeeeee.its nice to hear from you friend.ya really god will meet us in the next life.ya sure!!we will to accept the circumstances. but what can you do for her at that time. so that she could feel that ya real love is steel there.
• Philippines
21 Dec 08
I will attend on her wedding and tell her that I love her. But, I won't steal the girl from the man who will marry her. I will respect their decisions. I think in that way, she will also realize that I love her.:) Am I right?
@vayguey (18)
• United States
21 Dec 08
Good question...I actually was engaged and realized that we couldn't get married....We still remained friends until he started to disrespect my new boyfriend....Me and my boyfriend do think that marriage is in our future....But we aren't engaged yet....But If me and my ex were still friends I would invite him to my wedding and I know that he would be happy for me....Even though I know he still loves me he also realizes that what we had is over and I have moved on....I run into him every now and then....But we both are in relationships and want the best for eachother....I feel like it's better that we had love or were in love back then....Now we dont need to try to rekindle something that is so far behind us...It's a memory that will last forever but that is all.....
• India
21 Dec 08
you should go to your love.where your heart is saying to go. where you feel that some god is there. please go there. you can't live without your ex-boyfriend.
• United States
21 Dec 08
Well past will be past and will always be past. It will be a memory for the two of that you had shared but things change in time. She/he will always be a part of your life. You may still have a feelings for him/her but it's that you have the top priority now and that's not him/her anymore but your new life with someone else.
• India
21 Dec 08
ye!! we will have to accept the fact that she is not meant for me.but tell me what would you do to let her feel that you still love her too much.give a practical example.
@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
21 Dec 08
It'll really hurt at first, but if its the way it is then the only thing to do is move on and be happy for him.