never ask these questions to your guy.........
December 21, 2008 2:19am CST
Here are some questions that you should never ask to your guy or boyfriend: Unless you want to bruise your love bond, these questions are best left unasked. 1. "Am I better-looking/smarter/etc. than your ex?" Would you want him to ask you that? If he answers yes to your q, you'll wonder if he's lying. If he says no, well, can your really handle that kind of truth? He's with you now, not her, so just don't even go there. 2. "Do you love me?" Has he used the L word already? Well, there's your answer. If he hasn't--and you absolutely have to know where he stands--you might start by telling him how you feel about him, rather than putting him on the spot with a needy question. 3. "Can you lend me some money?" A few bucks is fine, but asking for anything substantial (like a down payment on your car, a month's rent, etc) is unfair. You don't sleep with your bank teller, so don't borrow cash from your boyfriend. 4. "Are you cheating on me?" If he's innocent, he'll resent the question. If he's guilty, chances are that he'll lie...and even when you have info to backup your suspicions, you better soft-pedal your accusation. If you're wrong, your relationship may never recover. NOTE: The article is taken from cosmopolitan.com
3 people like this
• United States
11 Jan 09
lol nice post maean, these questions aren't neccessarliy that bad i could definatly think of worse questions for a girl to ask a guy... like " do these pants make my butt look big?" or "how come you always watch that girl run up the street?" lol
• Saudi Arabia
21 Dec 08
That is definitely true. Good thing though, my girlfriend never asked those questions to me. How I wanted that at least once she could spill out one of the questions enumerated by you and the cosmopolitan. Maybe because she already knows it and she can handle really what irritates guys when the girls do too much asking. What if I will do the asking? Would my girlfriend gets annoyed with it?...lol
21 Dec 08
Wow. I really need articles like this. I think I'll visit cosmopolitan.com for more. Glad I've read this. My bf and I just had a fight. And because of your article, I think I know what's wrong with us. Thank you so much! and godbless.
• United Kingdom
9 Aug 15
I think number 2 and 3 depend on your relationship. I ask my bf if he loves me but I know he does and he knows I'm being silly and not being needy or anything. I wouldn't ask him to lend me money because he doesn't have any! As for number 4, it shouldn't need asking. If you suspect it then you don't trust your partner and are probably with the wrong person. My bf doesn't have the energy to cheat on me! But I trust him anyway. Number 1, isn't it just common sense to not ask that. I've seen a couple of my bf's ex-girlfriends so I know I'm prettier and smarter than them! :P Sadly, his partner before me passed away (from what he's said, and from pictures, she was both smart and pretty) so, while he does talk about her, I don't ask him anything about her.
• United States
8 Apr 11
Hi.maean_19. I think that this is some useful information here. I don't think that I have ever asked my boyfriend any of these questions. This would surely make him mad. Asking these type of questions will ruin or make problems into the relationship now or sooner or later.