What would the ladies like for Christmas?

Philippines
December 22, 2008 2:30pm CST
I need the opinion of all you ladies out there for me to get the right gift for that special lady out there.=)what would make her feel special? or what would make you feel special? help me out here.=) please and thank you.
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7 responses
@AnakSuNamun (2084)
• United States
22 Dec 08
Your special attitude:) Depends on what kind of lady that is.If she's romantic-something sweet like a heart shaped candy box,if not-tickets to a boxing match. I wouldn't mind one of those!.. Jewelry,pretty little knick-knacks and lingerie work most times. Well, if you're close enough to give lingerie:) I prefer useful gifts or even gadgets-Ipod-related stuff,GPS if you can afford it...;) But honestly,they say that it's not the gift that's important,it's your attention. You can even give a picture frame and engrave it with something personal to express your feelings,that will melt anyone's heart.
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
thanks.=) i like the suggestions. well the gadgets are pretty expensive.=) lingerie, quite sexy. the heart shaped candy box made me think of a special something. have a merry Christmas.
• United States
22 Dec 08
Thanks,same to you! Chocolate covered strawberries are a hit with everyone.
@cupcyke (363)
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
hello there, your really a sweet person. for me, i like my boyfriend to give me a box of almond chocolate and a huge stuffed toy. girls love to hug stuffed toys espicially when we get sleepy and chocolate symbolize that your so sweet to her. good luck to you!
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
i already gave her a stufftoy.=) almond chocolate. perhaps she would like that.=) Merry Christmas.
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
Do stuff for her that you hated before. That makes her feel more especial. :)
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
Thanks. Merry Christmas.=)
• United States
22 Dec 08
My advice is to ask her! Not in an obvious way but my son's father used to be GREAT at this. He would somehow bring the subject up by asking, "What would be the perfect holiday?" or he would just pay attention to things I looked at when we were out. Bring your lady out where there are stores and pay attention to the things she lingers at. She'll be amazed when she opens your gift and it is the exact something she saw the day before, you know. Good luck!
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
i asked her before but then what she usually says is that she already has the best gift, and that's me. she never answers seriously bout what gift she likes. Merry Christmas.=)
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@SomeCowgirl (32271)
• United States
22 Dec 08
My fiance and I have already exchanged gifts for Christmas but then we got money from my grandmother yesterday and went out today to shop. We bought a game for him, and a board game for us, but I was stubborn and didn't get anything for myself. He's threatened to order something online if he has to, but I told him not to. Well that's beside the point. Every lady is different, some like chocolate and roses, some like poems and a nice cooked meal, some like just being with the loved one. The best gift is one that comes from the heart so give her something special, something you've picked out for her.
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
it's so hard to pick when you have no ideas on what to pick.=) but then again thanks to your suggestions. i now have some ideas. you guys are of big help. thanks much.
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@breepeace (3027)
• Canada
22 Dec 08
What about a pampering gift? Like a one hour massage, or a manicure and a pedicure? I think most women would appreciate something that says that you care about her comfort and well being and it's not something that most men think about as a gift. If that's out of your price range, then a DIY pamper works nicely, too. Get her some candles and some bath goodies and an IOU for an after bath backrub complete with her favorite movie on play (and yes, you must watch, too.. not that you should be seeing the entire movie if all goes to plan). If she's not that type, then lingerie (only if you are certain about her size.. nothing is more off-putting than receiving a large teddy if you're a small, or vice versa, is more embarrassing than receiving a small teddy if you're definitely a large) always says "I think you're ravishing and sexy and I want you to feel that way". I think the gifts that make me feel the most special are when my guy was listening to me telling him about something I needed or wanted, and without any prompting got it for me for a special occasion. One year I told my boyfriend that I wanted a new sheet set for my bed, and was hoping to get one in the new year, and he bought me a beautiful set in my favorite color for Christmas.
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
what your boyfriend did was real sweet.=) i got to try that sometime. thanks.=)
@dawnald (84131)
• Shingle Springs, California
22 Dec 08
Don't know how much help I will be. My Christmas list was: 1. a dvr 2. a rocking chair 3. a kitten Anyway is this a girlfriend, a wife, what? Without knowing I can only make wild guesses, but how about: 1. a gift certificate for a spa visit or a massage 2. a necklace or earrings 3. something you made yourself 4. if she has children, offer to babysit while she goes out Hope something was helpful...
• Philippines
22 Dec 08
thank you for your help.=) i'm going to make her something this christmas which involves hearts.=) but still i'm open to other suggestions.=)