Does Having An Older BF means they want to take advantage of you?

To be honest with you chengjen, I don't think that all older men are seeking out younger women. And even if they did end up in a relationship with a younger woman a lot of times it is more to the woman's advantage because the man may have already established himself. This makes life easier for them as a couple. In the olden days, I think this was a lot more common than it is now. Also, you may find that women are more mature than men. So if a woman is dating an older man, they may still be at the same level of maturity. What do you think? That's just one person's opinion. I haven't done any studies on it or anything. Thanks for starting this discussion, and have a great day!

I don't think so. I've always dated older guys, and most of them weren't controling. I just see age as a number. Personally I think the younger guys these days are more controling because most of them haven't matured enough, and don't want to act their age.