What do you feel when your bf/gf compares you to her/his ex.?

@n30wing (4771)
Philippines
December 23, 2008 3:22am CST
I think what is finished should not be discuss anymore, it's a close book. I never discuss anything regarding my ex. it's kind a foul I feel and I don't wanna see her feeling hurt. But if I hear her talk about her previous relationship, I just don't wanna hear it. What about you guys? Have a nice day to all of you!
5 responses
• Qatar
23 Dec 08
uhmm! Past is past. though, sometimes he shared his past Gf and i asked some things about his past but dat necessarily mean that im interested to know abt his past. What is important is the present and Im his present LOVE now...
• Qatar
23 Dec 08
** also there's no point in comparing your ex to your present... happy lotting!
@ahmadia (117)
• Malaysia
26 Dec 08
they always do that. thats when they want you to do more rather than make you look bad.mostly its women who do that
@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
It's kinda annoying.. you should never talk about that with your new flame.
@Kumaresan (450)
• Malaysia
23 Dec 08
hello there... i have to agree with you friend... what is done, it's done... there's no need to talk or discuss about it anymore... but when they want to talk about their ex boyfriend or girlfriend, we feel kinda irritated... because why we want to know about their past relationships... there's only some things which can be discuss such as what problems they face, why they both separated and only suitable discussions only... not like where they went, what they both do when they were together and stuff like that... it's useless for us to know about it and once we know, we feel very bad about it... so i think it's not good when they talk or even compares us with their past relationship...
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
23 Dec 08
Uhm. He has never compared me to his ex, thank goodness. If he does positively, I would feel kind of flattered but then I'd wonder why's he even thinking of her now. I would want to know about his past relationship though.