How shall I refuse my girlfriend's urge?
December 23, 2008 8:49pm CST
I know it is my responsibility to fill the desire of my girlfriend but sometimes I am tired and not in the mood. She get's upset. I know this is a very delicate matter to women. What shall I do?
• United Kingdom
24 Dec 08
haha i totally agree with everyone up there... ^ You should probably purchase her toys which she can use when in that mood (and when you're not obviously)... And yes stress etc. can cause you to be tired and out of the mood- (or maybe thats just you in general). If she cannot understand that... then well... she kind of needs to grow up?
• United States
24 Dec 08
I think that you should just tell her what you are feeling. If she is a reasonable person, she will be fine with it. She should understand that sometimes, you are just not in the mood. Afterall, she might not be in the mood someday and will expect the same respect from you. I do not find that this is a very delicate matter, but I have never been denied before. If my boyfriend were not in the mood, I would be sure to be understanding. I think it is a double standard though. You cannot expect her to understand and then not give her the same option. Best of luck!