what do you think about widow ?

In certain areas widows always receive negative thinking because of the actions of a few widows before and after a divorce. Before a divorce these women were known to be great flirts and some are even promiscuos. After a divorce they still behave like this, thus giving a bad image to all widows. There were widows who were desperate for a husband and resorted to black magic to wrest away somebody else's husband. In my case I try not to have any negative thinking about widows. A few years back a widow became extra friendly with me and my spouse knew about it. Later on I found out she was also forming close relationships with a few other men. So I backed out because I did not want any future complications. Early this year one widow became friendly with me because we shared one passion, reading. It was an ordinary friendship and I did not expect more than that. Recently she got married to someone else and it did not bother me. all the best, rosdimy

Where are you located? Would it be due to the mindset of people in your country? There's nothing wrong if a person is a widow... it's not her fault. I think we must give them more sympathy and understanding knowing that they lost someone dear to their hearts. Here in our country, I have known lots of widows who are acknowledged in society due to the fact that they stand on their own feet to raise their children (families) alone. Despite of them being emotionally challenged.

I feel sad for anyone who loses a partner, not in a negative way at all, but very sad. Loss is something each of us deals with in a different manner, but that is not negative at all.

i dont understand why people would think negatively to the widow. it s not the person's fault to be a widower.