What is the Importance of Holding More Friends..

Friends - Friends....
India
December 31, 2008 1:05am CST
Hi Friends, Do you have more friends?? Not only in your real life, but also here in the online forum website the great "Mylot". I have around 160 Friends in mylot so far.. I feel that, friends are really a wonderful gift given by every one by God, because this is the only relations which has been select/choose by yourself, the rest of the other relations has been already fixed by others or it will be default by our birth. Even if we need to change it is not possible.. But as for as the Friends are concern, we can select by ourself, due to their good habits, helping tendency and other some of the quality, which we cannot explain in words. What is your point of view about friends.. Please post something in this new fresh year will provide us some good and charming friends. WISH YOU A VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR TO ALL OUR FRIENDS Wish you all the very best to all.
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@dpk262006 (56098)
• Delhi, India
31 Dec 08
I do not believe in number of friends specially here on mylot. If number of friends here are quite huge, it does not mean that you are going to get lots of responses to your discussions. I believe that those who are in my friends' list here should be 'active' friends. I have added many friends, who are no more active or do not turn up in my discussions. I just do not want those friends, who are 'inactive'. A very happy new year to you too! dpk I am awaiting your response to my PM?
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• India
31 Dec 08
Friends - frinds...
You are 100% right, if you hold more friends in our friends list means that you will get more response.. the main reason is the members are not select the discussions for responses from the catagory of "friends started". If you need any information from them, personnal, you will defenatly ask them, and get the reply through PM. All the very best.
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@dpk262006 (56098)
• Delhi, India
31 Dec 08
Sorry, dear, I could not get, what you wanted to convey? Having more number of friends is good or not?
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• India
31 Dec 08
It depends, how we are taking it, how we are utilize them.. and also the nature and the type of friends we have..
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@bombshell (11266)
• Germany
31 Dec 08
yes i found so many friends in mylot who always put a smile on my face and for that thanks for my mylot friends.
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@pankil (125)
• India
31 Dec 08
first of all there is a lot of difference between real life friends and mylot's and other community friends.....everybody in site become friends to help each other in the work...but in real life friends helps you emotionally as well as mentally..... and regarding to the number of friends .....its not necessary to have huge number of friends.....you can have many friends but 1 or 2 will be totally loyal to you and thats what a person wants...so if you 1 friend who is loyal to you thats enough!!!
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• China
5 Jan 09
i have a lot of friend in real life but not so many in the internet,i like chatting with my friend face to face.
• India
8 Jan 09
Thanks - thaks..
That is very good.. Keep this up.. All the very best.. and thanks for your responses.
• United States
1 Jan 09
Hi Chennai, Well on mylot I feel it's important to have a good amount of friends because if you didn't have many mylot friends then you would only receive 0-3 response to your discussions when you create them because your friends see your discussions before anybody else does. But at the same time I think if you have more friends then you can manage then it can be too much for some people to handle. In my real life I'm surrounded by friends and family all the time, I almost have no privacy sometimes because of it..LOL.. But I'm pretty much use to it. Before my son was born I use to have at least 8-20 friends at my house every weekend. I have no where that amount now.. Now I have 2-5 now during the weekend or evenings( sometimes because I like quiet evenings half of the time.) I'm also picky what type of people I have around my son because he's autistic and sensitive to new people and I only like dear trusted friends around anymore. I agree,friends are wonderful gifts and I've had my friends for years.~Happy New Year!
@phalz81 (106)
• Singapore
1 Jan 09
I'm newbie in mylot, hope you will be my 1st friend ^O^. Anyway Happy New Year to you too. As for friend, I do have a lot in real life. As for mylot friend, I do wish to have friends that can share thoughts and helping each other. But my concern is not about their activity, because as a friend we must understand that this kind of relationship can not be force. And of course without friends, this world will be very empty. And blessed for those has a close friend, means close can be as your parents, your kids, your husband or spouse, your relatives. Sometimes yes we do choosy about friends, we categorized them as group A maybe friends who are abundance with wealth? or group B by their kindness? or group C by their sharing same hobbies as you. And this is the nature about human. We born to choose ^O^ and to decide.
• India
1 Jan 09
Yes. I have more friends. Because Friends are helping to our life every part. wish you a very happy new year to all our friends.
@vanonas (950)
• United States
1 Jan 09
I don't have too many friends. I don't think I need a lot of friends to be happy. No one person has a hundred friends they can put all their trust in and expect the same trust back from them. I'm much happier having 1 true friend than a million fake ones. I have a lot of friends on myLot, but they're just online friends. I don't even think I've talked to them all, just added them as a friend!