Marriage

China
December 31, 2008 2:53am CST
I am 25 years old and I always hope I can come across a man who loves me as I love him. What a pity that I have failed as far. Can I marry a man I don't love? Three year ago, I met a married man and we fell in love. We were attracted by each other. He liked my younth and acute. I liked his ... all. Yes, I liked him anything, smiling, eating something...every behavior. But now he has his own daughter. he loves his daughter very much. we departed.
2 responses
@jesbellaine (4157)
• Philippines
31 Dec 08
Hi There! If I am your friend, I would advice you not to marry a man if you don’t love him. I don’t any reason why people should marry if they don’t love each other. IT may not work out. For me, marriage is sacred, it is a relationship that both partners share and they must love each other… You will meet other man that doesn’t have any commitment or not married. Just think that he is not meant for you that is why you parted… and be lucky enough that you didn’t ruin a marriage because you will hurt everybody even yourself… but even if you don’t get the man you love right now, don’t get a MAN to marry just because you like to get married… marry for love… otherwise… I don’t think you will be happy… Hope this helps. Goodluck! Thanks for the discussion! Happy New Year and Happy HOlidays! Cheers!
@maean_19 (4663)
• Philippines
31 Dec 08
Are you in a rush to marry? I am older than you and still unmarried for some reasons. Marriage is not part of my vocabulary right now and I do not worry much about it. Though I love to have a family of my own and have a husband with me as I grow old. As I go over your discussion, am not quite sure what is the real question. I will answer your question, anyway. CAN I MARRY A MAN THAT I DON'T LOVE? You can actually answer that by yourself with these subquestions...Can you live with a man you do not love? Do you believe in the saying that 'love can be developed?" A man's love is different from a woman's love to their partner. It is more possible for a woman to easily fall for someone when the man shows her love and respect. If the man loves you more, that would be fine. Your love will be developed eventually when the man shows you his care, love, respect, understanding and affection. I tell you, that is more possible to happen. You may not love him now, but you can love him later.