being far apart.do i need trust him

Philippines
January 5, 2009 5:20am CST
do i need trust him that he far away from me?he said that he love me i now trust is emportan't in relationship but anaway sometimes temptation is part, when the people who love each other even so single allto temptation,do you experience? what should you if u be mine
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• India
8 Jan 09
Hi Cynthia (23) lol, I was in a relationship earlier, and my bf went to some other country for his further studies, i broke up, sad to say, but it was really hard for me to trust him. Somewhere in my heart i wanted him to go because he was not a trustable person and trust is the most important thing in a relationship. I think you should trust him and stop worrying about him all the time. If you will keep asking doubtful questions to him all the time, he will get irritated and things will go worst even if they are meant to be good. So enjoy your relationship and whenever you people talk just share good things instead of asking irrelevant and doubtful questions, which can make him feel that you don't trust him.
• Philippines
8 Jan 09
really appricite your answer,yes sometimes to much asking question is not good your right,i fallow you said need be happy for the relationship that have right now,be satiesfied for god gave me,they have time that we been together happy
• India
9 Jan 09
Goodluck!! Cheers..!!
• Philippines
9 Jan 09
hudluck to im happy that you answer my qustion..god bless
6 Jan 09
I had a long-distance relationship for a few years. Trust is ESSENTIAL. You have to trust. If you don't, you'll go mad worrying about it all the time! And when all is said and done, if they cheat on you then they didn't deserve you anyway.
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
HELLO THERE,HOW ARE YOU MY LOTTER,yes your right need to trust to my partner,even so many temptation there actually really trust him allot but sometimes we can't get out for women that we thinking and jelous,okie take care have nice day
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7 Jan 09
I've been cheated on by every girl I've dated. Bad choices, I guess. But it doesn't mean I stop trusting: my partner would NEVER cheat on me because she knows it'd be the end of our relationship and she'd never find another me. That might sound rather big-headed (lol!), but I feel the same about her - going off with someone else for some fun could never replace what we have together.
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
I try it how many times ignore all what he doing,asking qustion always to my self what if well do also something what he doing,that BIG Q for me but like said i love him allot so never make it.respect him and also relationship for me always said unfair for me,u know what the time found it that they have tell to my self hurt so much.because his the person in love with
@Pleiades (847)
• United States
8 Jan 09
Uuuhhh...YEAH! Actually, it also dependds on what the other person does for a living, where's he living and what's going on around him that would add up to the greater need for the trust to be there. I was in a long distance relationship five years ago and I blew it. Sad to say, but I was tempted by someone here and broke it off with the man from the other state. That relationship didn't go over well, but I find myself again in a relationship with someone far away from me. Luckily this time, I have absolutely no desire to look upon the face of another man other than the one that has my heart. Now, with the man on the other side of the world. He's a man, he's a soldier of the United States Army. Lucky for me, he really has no desire to be with a woman from over there. I guess, if anything, we're tired of being shoved and pulled here and there in the relationship, we're tired of being stepped upon...we're ready for something more mature. Respect and maturity...those are the key ingredients. *Pleiades
• Philippines
8 Jan 09
your right dependds on the person who trust each other your right agree with you.before also have relationship for 3 years i trust him allot,after the bloom up also,Thant the reason im trust for second time nut love him allot,but maybe im lucky for second time like you!!!!!
@Pleiades (847)
• United States
8 Jan 09
Thank you so much for awarding me with that honour. Today marks the 1 month 1 day left before I see the man in whom I've put in so much trust and faith to love me. Phew, it's good I didn't hook up with some player, other than the fact he loves video games. HAHA! *Pleiades