What women want.

@suzzy3 (8357)
January 5, 2009 5:30pm CST
Come on girls I think from what I have heard recently men have a hard time keeping us happy and I thought it might be a good idea to let them know what makes you tick.Are you the girl who likes fast cars and big salary chegues or are you the deep and meaningful type.Perhaps if we let the men know what makes us happy they might stand more of a chance. so is it flowers and chocolates ,romantic dinners.Or a nice walk in the park on a summers evening and a bag of chips.Does being in love mean wanting to care for someone or does it mean they must care for you or both equally.I am off the opinion that the majority of girls want a nice kind man who puts us above his friends but still has them,can play rugby or football/sport as long as it is not every weekend,is capable of mending a tap washer.Still needs someone to cook for him but not all the time,What do you want from your man apart from the obvious keep it clean girls or we will get wiped .Some abbrievations allowed.
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@Mocha09 (71)
• United States
5 Jan 09
First things first, I want my partner to be honest, most guys have to many secrets....I want him to be caring, understandable, trusting/trustworthy, romantic, reasonable... I want him to want to know how I feel and what to say to make me feel better...Someone to make me laugh, someone who will cook for me every once in awhile...Oh and of course he has to be faithful.....I don't think that guy exists...lol
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@suzzy3 (8357)
6 Jan 09
I got him.Thanks for your response.x
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• Philippines
6 Jan 09
As a woman I want and wish a man that is: A verbally Intimate man- I want a man who won't battle things up or run away when times are tough, healthy things is to share what my man is going through.. An Honest Man- Is he being consistent? Sorry to say this for men, but let's admit that most men can't stand behind everything they said... A man who can resolved conflict- I hope he can resolves relationship conflict with an eye towards, peaceful compromise not personal victory, smart enough to know when winning is less important than resolving conflict.. Economically stable- I don't want to have a money conflict,or being financially unstable, that also a marriage breaker.... An attractive man-we can't set aside physical appearance we need to feel the tug of physical attraction just like men...
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@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
6 Jan 09
For me, I just want my partner to show his great love to me. I mean, I must be his top priority above anything else. Sometimes, men have many priorities that they forgot about their partner. It sometimes affects how they treat their partners. I want my partner too to be sensible and would occassionally send me gifts not fancy but things that would make me feel I am important and would show how his love to me.
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@Llonorra22 (1150)
• Philippines
24 Feb 09
I want a man with a big sense of responsibility. I need someone who love and take me for what I am and someone who will love unconditionally.....
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@suzzy3 (8357)
24 Feb 09
Not a lot to ask really.Thanks for responding.xx
• Philippines
26 Feb 09
You're welcome my friend!!
• Philippines
7 Feb 09
i want my man to be a resposible and at the same time loving and caring partner. i want him to be faithful and sweet and most of all i want him to trust me with all his heart. i want my guy to be there when i have problems and speaking of problems i want him to help me solve our problems before we go to sleep. Im allowing him to have fun time with his peers because i want him to grow and i dont want to stop him in his daily routines. I want him to be my inspiration in life. wy
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@suzzy3 (8357)
9 Feb 09
Thanks for responding.xx
@mjweed21 (693)
• Philippines
7 Jan 09
For me it's just so simple. I just want to feel secured and well-loved by the man I'm with. It makes me feel my real worth to him. romantic and fancy dates will be useless if you don't feel such.
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@suzzy3 (8357)
9 Feb 09
Thanks for response.x
@celticeagle (121065)
• Boise, Idaho
6 Jan 09
COMMUNICATE!!!!It should be a equal relationship but there are situations where one needs to give more than the other, atleast for a time. If this isn't happening then move on! And give a guy time with his friends and let him do what he wants to do and he will be alot more apt to be all a woman needs and wants him to be. It is a two way street. Not all for me! Me! Me! Me! Doesn't cut it in a relationship.
@suzzy3 (8357)
9 Feb 09
Thanks for response.x
@ronnyb (6119)
• Jamaica
6 Jan 09
Very good discussion. For me its companionship, good conversation ,loyalty and genuine concern for your partners feelings. Companionship ,you want someone who will be there with you ,to share time, space, intimacy and your innermost feeling desires and needs. Good conversation, I really like a woman who can present herself well because I believe that next to physical intimacy ,this is the only other thing that can turn me on. Loyalty ,I absolutely hate people with no loyalty, that is a "run around Sally”. Call me selfish if you must but I like my woman for myself ,I don’t like to share .I think she must be loyal to me and need me as much I need her and save only the best for me as I will seek to do the same. I would like to know that you will be there in thick and thin ,good and bad times Try to put yourself in the others persons shoes and if it hurts you then chances are it will hurt your partner. There will be time when this is unavoidable but at least do the best you can.
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@suzzy3 (8357)
6 Jan 09
You should be able to find that in someone as most women need the same things as well thanks for comment.x
@kprofgames (3103)
• United States
6 Jan 09
Well some of the stuff mentioned makes me feel sorry for the genders. A person will never be happy if they depend on another to "complete" them. As for the romantic stuff, that's nice, but a man shouldn't just expect to do these things to keep a woman happy. She should be happy and these little things would be the added bonuses, not neccessities to make a relationship work. What do I want? A man that holds his own. I want him to be indepandant, have his own interests. I don't have to share them. To be honest, I want a partner that's there, but still strong enough to stand on their own. I don't expect him getting all giddy when I want to see a play, nor should he expect me to jump for joy when he wants to watch NASCAR. I think a sound relationship is knowing you have other interets and understanding the importance of a needing that time alone. I'm all for having common goals and likes, but we also have to understand the dislikes. I guess I want a partner that's there as a partner, but still strong enough to take off for a week by himself to go fishing with his buddies ya know. Or not mind if I want to take off and have a weekend with the girls in Veges or something.
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@suzzy3 (8357)
6 Jan 09
Thanks for the comment.x
@Miss_C (5)
• Singapore
6 Jan 09
For me, I want my man to be truthful,loving and caring to me. Nothing beats honesty and communication in a relationship. Bonus to guys who pay attention to the nitty gritty details and it certainly earns credit for such deeds. However, " Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" I do not expect my man to fully understand me but at least close to 100%. That will be great for me!
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@suzzy3 (8357)
6 Jan 09
Thank you for your comment.x
@noniefam (284)
• Indonesia
6 Jan 09
what is women want????????women want love.true love n good friend cause good friend will be beside u whatever ur condition n true love will be give u everything woman want like care n love. with love we can know n share everything.
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@suzzy3 (8357)
6 Jan 09
Thank you for your comments.xx
• India
6 Jan 09
According to me girls wants men to show love towards her.......She wants all the attention,to be loved,to be cared by men.....Girls do like their praises....Girls ,no matter how much you deny with this but truth is that they do like praises,gifts,choclates etc.......
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• United States
6 Jan 09
I guess I'm different there, but to me that's the difference between a girl and being your own woman.
• United States
6 Jan 09
Well Suzzy ...this is a discussion where almost all of us can keeping yapping...this , this , this & this...:) Me being a Virgo am quite demanding and perfectionist. I would like my partner to be neat-clean-well groomed ( I hate sloppy guys) with decent dining habits. SOmeone who is intelligent,with solid education, career oriented,ambitious, successful in what he does and is liked by people in general. On a Deeper level I would like him to be practical, cautious, cheerful, and communicative. Someone I can trust with my feelings and who would confide in me too so that we can have a great time just talking as well..I am not a very event oriented person. I like to enjoy everyday miracles and creating extraordinary experiences out of simple togetherness, sharing , loving and caring...I am sure I have been able to outline some of teh most important points for me...:)
• India
6 Jan 09
Well in my view I think even God can't fully understand WOMEN...On a serious note I asked one of my friends who is a girl and she said that even the women don't know what they want...from that day I stopped asking..:)
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@chevill (316)
• Philippines
6 Jan 09
I want him to prioritize me, to always look after me, to be sensitive to what i feel, provide all our needs and wants but not all the time. if he can't it' so okay.
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• China
6 Jan 09
I am a girl, I think what I really want is happiness. I would not mind if I have a lot of money, I do not mind if I have strong authority or something else. I want to live peacefully, happily with the people I live, and this is also the idea lifestyle I dream.
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• India
6 Jan 09
First thing first....The truth is What is going on inside a woman's head is unpredictable.Even the researchers found us to be unpredicatable at times........:) but i feel every woman has some pre-defined sets of parameters that she wants to see in her man........I feel the below parameters,not fully,but could be of some help: Woman want to find True Love! Lusty women,passionate women,one-man women..everyone wants d same thing.Love still makes the world go round.I personally feel what's life without someone who loves you. Woman still want a good marriage! You got it right....we want to be wooed and then finally get married happily Woman want good friends! We all need a shoulder to cry.....when we are bogged down...the "dial-a-friend" therapy works wonder..!If u've good friends around u...nothing can bother u... Woman want 2 c a friend in his man! Surely,this accounts for a woman of every breed.....no one would like 2 suffer from dictatorship...every1 would look around 4 a caring man...who can pacify at times when she needs him
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@shaie78 (141)
• Malaysia
6 Jan 09
The first thing with my experience what women want they want a lot of caring with the partner,appreciated her as her partner,honest in relationship.
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@hildas (3031)
6 Jan 09
I really want love and respect from my husband and for him to show me more that I am thought about and appreciated for everything that I do for him. I feel sometimes that I could be shown a lot more thought and taken out more for meals and things. I do not want much money. A little more would be great. I just want appreciation the most from my husband, as I love it when I am respected and knowledged.
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• United States
6 Jan 09
I just want someone to fix my dishwasher! PDQ
@suzzy3 (8357)
6 Jan 09
Seems perfectly reasonable to me.xx