do you like your life or you wish some changes in them?

@ammie07 (322)
India
January 6, 2009 10:03am CST
some people do grumble a lot about life.i too sometimes find myself grumbling and not liking the way my life is but end of the day its my life and i have live with it.at times i feel i am better of than some of my friends and at times i feel that my life is not worth it........what are your views about life? do you wanna change something or you like the way it is??????
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
15 Jan 09
Hi ammie07! I am happy with my life. But there are times that I do wonder if I made that choice or this choice will my life be fine as it is now or will it be better. And there are those times that I wish I could make some changes and there are those times that I don't like my life. I guess, when I am faced with so many difficulties, I start to wish I have a different kind of life and when things are doing fine, I am so happy I am leading this kind of life I have. I guess, it is just human to sometimes feel this way. But at the end of the day, I thank God for having a life that is surrounded and filled with love. Take care and have a nice day! lovelots..faith210
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@faith210 (11224)
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
Hi dear friend! I do agree with you that we do all have different life and our lives are unique from each other. Maybe that is one of the reasons why we can learn so much from each other. Lovelots..faith210
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@ammie07 (322)
• India
19 Jan 09
i do agree faith happy mylotting
@ammie07 (322)
• India
18 Jan 09
yeah i agree to your point faith210.....every one of us has been given a unique and different life and we should accept life as it is without grumbling........have a good day dear friend
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• United States
6 Jan 09
When I look at my life sure it didn't turn out the way I planned. I was never rescued by my knight on a white horse and whisked away to a magical kingdom where I never had to want for any thing ever again, but I have everything I ever dreamed of. I have a wonderful family, 2 lovely children, 2 cats, I live in a nice town in a nice house. I would not change one bit of my life, I love it just the way it is. My kids are great my husband is great and so is my mother in law. Yea I know your thinking what ever lol, but really I think of her as more of a mother than I do my own mother, but that is another story. I think the only thing I would change about my life if I could was to have more money just so I can spend it on my children.
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@ammie07 (322)
• India
6 Jan 09
its good to know that your mother in law is good to you..sometimes they are not good as my cousins she suffers so much.well don't worry about money your children have got a very good mother am sure they wont want much more than that....anyways take care[",]
• United States
6 Jan 09
awww well thank you your words have made my day.
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@ammie07 (322)
• India
6 Jan 09
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@James72 (26790)
• Australia
13 Jan 09
It's human nature to complain! I am happy about many things in my life, yes. But there are also many things that I do wish to change and fix also. I doubt very much that this circumstance will ever change really as I hope to be seeking personal improvement my entire life! The bottom line is that our lives are exactly what we make of them. No matter what the situation, there is ALWAYS light at the end of the tunnel. We just tend to forget this at times and become consumed by negativity.
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@ammie07 (322)
• India
17 Jan 09
yes i do agree with you dear friend at end of every dark night there is dawn and we should never leave hope.......have a good day[",]
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
26 Jan 09
Hi, friend. At present, I'm already married for more than 5 years and we do have 1 daughter for a child. This is one of the things I am happy about and thankful of to the Lord. However, I must admit that my life isn't perfect so I want to have some changes. First off, it will definitely help me and my family if we will be free from all of our financial debts which currently serves as a constant burden in our life. Further, I'd like to have some cash in the bank of at least 100,000 pesos or approximately 2,000 dollars. Also, our daughter is about to start schooling this year and honestly, we still don't have any funds for her education. Hopefully, we'll be able to come up with a substantial amount before enrollment. And even during my college days, it is my ultimate dream to have a lawful and lucrative or successful business so that I won't have to leave our daughter behind on a daily basis. I wouldn't have to hurry up every morning, too. Anyway, I sincerely hope that things will be much better in my life and that of my own family's this year of the Earth Ox.
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@ammie07 (322)
• India
2 Feb 09
i sincerely wish all your dream comes true....don't worry have full faith on god and yourself.like will be better......have a good day dear friend
@ktosea (2025)
• China
13 Jan 09
I do not like the life in this way,not a little,I wanna change many things and now I am just working hard on it,I am sure I will reach my goal someday in the near future.I always grumbling but just in my heart,I do not complain anything but I will change
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@ammie07 (322)
• India
15 Jan 09
all the best ktosea for life dear friend......have a good day
• India
6 Jan 09
i wish to lead the life as given to me. the past and present is in my hand but future is also in our hand with a twist and turn plus we are creater of it too so play safe with life
@ammie07 (322)
• India
7 Jan 09
i do agree with you.........but sometimes its not in our hand too
@LaurenInLA (2270)
• United States
6 Jan 09
I love my life but I do consider it a work in progress. As I've approached different stages of my life, I want different things in my life. I usually assess my life each year and when I want to make a change in it, I go for it. The only change that I would make in my life is that I would like to be an author. So, I have a plan in place to accomplish that goal and I'm working on my third rewrite of my first book. Your life is definitely worth it. We don't always realize how many people we impact by just being ourselves. Each creature on this planet has an integral part in the functioning of the universe and you are no different. Be proud of yourself!
@ammie07 (322)
• India
7 Jan 09
that is a good thought.i wish you luck with your first book.......do let me know when you are done with it.i would like to read your book.......[",]