Cute Vs. Sexy - What is a real man looking for?

Cute Vs. Sexy? - Picture of a "cute" cartoon girl
United States
January 9, 2009 2:59pm CST
I had a recent discussion with a guy. And, it was about how men choose women for long-term relationships. What are real men looking for? A hot and sexy girl, or a cute (innocent-ish) lady?
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@katsmeow1213 (29044)
• United States
9 Jan 09
I think men would look for their idea of cute for a long term relationship. If the guy is only looking for hot and sexy, he's probably nothing but trouble.
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• United States
9 Jan 09
Right on!
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• United States
9 Jan 09
Typically a man who is looking for a long term relationship would pick a girl he thinks is cute and who is someone he is compatible with. A man who just wants a hookup, or another notch on his list, will go for a "sexy" girl...who usually is just easy.
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• United States
9 Jan 09
Yeah, I think I agree w/what you're saying and so did the male I had the initial conversation with. I think that, in the long run, beauty may "fade" and there's always the (hopeful) "cuteness" to the person that will last.
@asgtswife04 (2482)
• United States
10 Jan 09
Well, from what my husband told me and tells me to this day is that when he met me I had that innocent, yet seductive look about me. Whatever that means. LOL! He said what really got him was that I was so cutely shy and innocent looking, yet I had that mysteriousness about me that told him there was more to me than just innocence. LOL! We laugh about it all the time now, but we are still going strong after almost five years of marriage. God bless
• United States
10 Jan 09
[/b]Yes, I think the mystery is something that men love. Of course, I also think that they want someone they can respect, the [b]whole time, but, a mysterious/sexy flair now and then throws some spice into the relationship. God bless you too!
• United States
10 Jan 09
yes, respect is key to a sucessful marriage. without it you have nothing. God bless
• United States
9 Jan 09
Based on what I have learned I think that men like casual relationships with sexy more outgoing women and I think when they are ready to settle down they are lookiing for someone who is more reserved and less likely to be disruptive with other family members and someone who has a more maternal and nurturing nature.
• United States
10 Jan 09
I agree; what you're saying definitely has truth to it. Having a good time, or something casual tends to be a lot different than something long-standing.
@bamakelly (5194)
• United States
9 Jan 09
I suppose that it depends on each individual man. I am a woman so my opinion would be that the looks always jump out first. I think a guy likes a sexy woman most of the time. Of course the most important thing in my thinking is the personality of the person. Looks are fleeting but the heart will be the same for years to come if they are truly a good person.