Chores

Canada
January 11, 2009 4:01pm CST
Do your kids have chores? Do they do them....which ones seem to be the ones that they like the best? If your kids are all grown up did they have chores growin up? And do you think it helped with there over all character? My children have a few chores. My oldest has to do the dishes and take the dog out and the garbage and recyclables out and try to keep her room clean...the hardest one for her is to keep her room clean....why is that? Everything else she ahs no problems with. But this she does...even when she does clean it, it is not fully cleaned it is just kinda straightened up.
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@sunshine4 (8703)
• United States
12 Jan 09
My boys are older than my daughter and when they were growing up, I had a chore chart. They would have certain chores every day that they had to do such as make their bed, bring their dirty laundry to the laundry room and clean their spots at the dinner table. Then I assigned daily chores that rotated for them like set the table, empty the dishwasher and do the dishes. I think it helped them alot become responsible teenagers. Now my oldest is living with his girlfriend(he is 20) and I notice that he is always doing chores and helping around their house. My daughter is now 8 and she also does chores. She has the same responsibilities as her brothers did. Now at dinner time, all my kids clear their spots from the table and my daughter usually does the dishes. They all still bring their laundry down stairs. They pretty much clean up after themselves and respect that I like a clean house.
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• Canada
13 Jan 09
see and that is what I keep telling my children...we make you do these things so you know how to do it when you get out on your own so you don't live like pigs in your adult life!!!!thanks sunshine for your post...oh and I did have a chart when my step daughter was here on a regular basis...I will have to make up a new one I think thanks
@kels9289 (15)
• United States
11 Jan 09
My son when he is old enough will do chores. I think that if a child has chores it will teach them some sort of responisbilty.
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@stephcjh (38473)
• United States
11 Jan 09
My daughter has chores to do. We all work every week and we all have our own chores that need to be done.
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
13 Jan 09
The only real chore my son has is taking the recycling out to the garage and crushing the cans. He does not get an allowance for it, but he does get to keep the money from the cans when they get turned in.
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@lilybug (21107)
• United States
13 Jan 09
My son got around $100 last year from his can crushing chore alone. Not bad for a kid that just turned 9. My siblings help him out with it by giving him their aluminum cans too. He has gotten several bags from 4 of my 5 siblings in the last year.
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• Canada
13 Jan 09
I have a friend that has a daughter that gets the money from the cans...but she doesn't do anything to get it....that to me is spoiled!!!...at least your son takes them out and sqashes them...
@gemini_rose (16264)
13 Jan 09
Yes all my children have chores and they receive pay for doing them too. One of them absolutely hates having to do it but he does as he knows that no chores means no pay and no pay means no games or trading cards or whatever he is into at the time!!! I do have the problems with the bedroom, they are really untidy in that area but I must admit they have kept it pretty clean since the last time, could be because I made them clean it to within an inch of its life so they do not want to have to do it again lol!
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• Canada
15 Jan 09
LOL there is always something isn't there!!!
@fasttalker (2796)
• United States
11 Jan 09
Both of my boys are grown but they did have chores. Taking th trash out, feeding the dogs, making their beds (their favorite!) and cleaning their rooms. They fussed about the rooms too but when they got to be teenagers they learned quickly that when the weekend came and their rooms had not been cleaned they stayed at home. My oldest lives in his own place and he is a pretty good housekeeper so I guess it helped. My youngest is still in the process of it! LOL At least it taught both of them responsibility even if they didn't get the task down as well as they should have! LOL
@cindy2003 (196)
• Australia
12 Jan 09
Yes, my daughter does chores. She's only 5, 6 in March, and she helps to pick up her toys etc in the lounge room every night, sometimes she helps with drying the dishes, helps hubby and me outside with the gardening, tidying up outside, cleans her room, and various other things aswell. We don't over do it and get her do alot in one day as we like it to be fun for her, and not as though she has to do it etc. She likes doing what she does, and she does enough around the house to satisfy me that she's pulling her weight. She also likes to feed the cat aswell.
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• Canada
13 Jan 09
good job mom, I think it helps them be more responsible and realize that you have to work to get things...such as money from an allowance!!!thanks for the response