Should I talk to her??

India
January 11, 2009 6:04pm CST
My school mate whom I havent talked for last 2 years is suffering frm a chronic disease. She betrayed me of sumthing which she also have felt mut she never talked back to me. But the conditions are all changed now. Should i talk to her
4 responses
• Philippines
12 Jan 09
there's a saying that it is easy to forgive but very difficult to forget..the scars remain everytime you see the person..but in a long run..although the pain is just there, the heartache is still present but not as fresh as before...to forgive someone is worthwhile and you could even earn rewards and points of goodness because God don't want us to be enemies to each other..we should love one another as the Golden rule says.
• India
12 Jan 09
I havent told that i hate her or i have got an agony for her..!! just what should i do that ma question!
• United States
12 Jan 09
hey do whats right in your heart
• India
12 Jan 09
finally i will do that only na!!
• United States
12 Jan 09
you may never be able to forget but to forgive is the greatest thing!
• India
12 Jan 09
thanks dear, but my ego is cuming in my way. Frm last two years she even havent tried to make a single contact!!
@chulce (1540)
• United States
12 Jan 09
It is time to find peace in your relationship. If it has been two years, it is time to let go of that situation and move forward in your life. We have so many things going on in our lives that we eventually let certain things rule us. One of which is stress and guilt. These two things can cause us a lot of problems. Life is to short to hold grudges. Here is a suggestion: 1) Talk to her, let her know that you are sorry that she is so ill and ask if there is anyway to help. This will help break the ice to begin with. 2) After you are comfortable with this initial moment. Talk about good times that you have had, forget about the past. If you remember the good, it can out weigh the bad. 3) After you have been with her a while and the two of you are relaxed enough, maybe she will open up to you, ask another simple question, "is there anything that you regret most?" If the answer is yes, be the shoulder and listen. Then let her know about something you might regret. One maybe being the loss of communication for so long. In some cases it is best to make amends and get over the negativity than it is to keep it bottled up. Good luck to you and prayers to you and your friend.