what will i do to deal my unconsiderate neighbors?

South Korea
January 13, 2009 12:27am CST
we just moved in few month ago..we lived in apartment now..we are staying at the 4th floor... everytime my neighbor go outside they make me fell bad..coz they make a big sound..means they cant closed their doors slowly...that all over my placed will shaken..i somtimes shout specially if my toddler what sleepng and that kind of sounds makes her awake i kept on telling my husband he said he will tell the guy next door but until now it seems that no improvement.. i have plans to tell him on my own way..but my husband doesnt like the idea coz im a woman and the guy next door is a divorced man..i said i dont care but we end up fighting over it..what will i do to deal this man..i need your opinion ..plz.share
3 responses
@checapricorn (16066)
• United States
13 Jan 09
[i]Hi marketing, How about telling the owner of the apartment about this problem? That is maybe the best solution rather than you talking to the guy, we are not sure if this guy is open-minded! Good luck and I know how it feels to have a neighbor like that![/i]
• South Korea
13 Jan 09
we own this apartment, and if we tell to the management we are going to file a complain to the office..and the next door will going to recieve a memo from the management and thats my husband doesnt like this idea..thanks for sharing have a nice day
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• United States
13 Jan 09
i see...that is a lot of hassle!I hope you will be able to think of a great idea of how to confront him so that you will also live conveniently!
@ellie333 (21029)
13 Jan 09
Hi Marketing, I have no husband so if it were me I would personally go round and explain that I have a young child who is woken each time they slam the door and would they mind trying to close a little more quietly, your husband doesn't want you to do this so I guess you could leave a note through his door or make sure your husband does in fact go round and say something. Huggles. Ellie :D
• South Korea
13 Jan 09
oh yes,,i think that was a good idea..thanks and have a nice day
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@ellie333 (21029)
13 Jan 09
Thanks for the best response, really appreciated, I hope you manage to resolve this with your neighbour. Huggles. Ellie :D
@nanayangel (7839)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Hi there! I think it's okay to tell him, in a polite manner though, because it can be that he is not doing that on purpose or he isn't aware of what he's doing. I think that you should tell him that it's really bothering you and tell him about your toddler. Since your husband don't feel comfortable with what you're planning to do, maybe you should just tell your landlord or landlady about it so that he or she will be the one to talk to your neighbor.
• South Korea
13 Jan 09
im planning to tell this to the office ,,but we expect that the whole building of this apartment will know it..coz the security guard will give the occupant a memorandum..and thats my husband doesnt like to ..thanks and have a nice day