How to keep your man?

Philippines
January 13, 2009 7:10am CST
I have a friend who is inlove with a man and she's afraid that he is going to loose him now that she feels he is cold with her. How or What are things to keep your man? i want to my friend so i need your ideas..... thank you!
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7 responses
• India
13 Jan 09
its simple be truthful to him ,show how much you care for him ............... never doubt on him ........
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@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
I think it will be very hard to please a guy or to get his feelings back to her if it's already gone. The reason I can see why his guy is being cold is the presence of third party. He found someone better. It's just mean that the guy is not satisfied with her. It's sad but she should need to set him free. If she will insist herself to him, it may continue their relationship but not for long, it would still end up to negative. What she should really do is to talk to him, confront him, ask him why he acted like that, why he is turning to be cold and ask him if he still loves her, if he says he still loves her, but still continue on being cold, I think she has no choice but to set him free and move. Find the right guy.
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@donsky14 (5963)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
Just always show the guy that your in love with him, show it through actions and words as well. Simple things like cooking him food or something like that.
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@thanxiang (126)
• Philippines
13 Jan 09
How to keep your man?I guess you cant keep your man,if you are not meant to be,then there's nothing you can do about it.Your effort will become useless coz in the end,you will end up for break up.What i want to emphasize here is knowing God's will in every relationship,if you are sure already that he's is the right one,then show to him that you love him and that you care for him.Respect and trust are very important also for your man to stick with you.Above all,trust God coz He has better plan to each of us.Have a good day to you.
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@xlinzixx (511)
13 Jan 09
first of all tell her to stop being so paranoid about losing him otherwise she will push him away and secondly they should start spending more quality time together doing something they both enjoy.
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@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
14 Jan 09
Well why not let your friend ask his boy friend if there is something wrong. Communication is a big deal in a relationship. She has to open what she feels and think, so it can work out smoothly, and problems or issues can be solve. Sometimes boredom also is a part of getting cold in a relationship. When you keep doing the same thing. A lot of reasons like the romance stop, or even there is no improvement. Have a nice day to you!
@bamakelly (5194)
• United States
13 Jan 09
It shouldn't be too much work to keep a man. I wonder if the man might have just lost his interest in your friend. She shouldn't feel that she needs to try to keep him in my opinion and experience. She might love him now but you never know. She could find someone else down the road that really deserves her attention.