What makes you fall out of love?

@n30wing (4771)
Philippines
January 14, 2009 4:27am CST
I just fall out of love when I am not happy anymore, and when I am not in love anymore. When I don't have certainty that is someone that I would want to be with the rest of my life. I f there's an important conflict that coundn't resolve and neither party wants to give in. If both of us grow still, but in different directions. What about you guys! Good evening to all of you!
2 responses
@phyrethyme (1267)
• Philippines
14 Jan 09
I fall out of love when.. I don't know. Just recently I did. What happened was I imagine myself spending my life with him but then there's conflict because he's the type who's okay with being stagnant. So I wonder, what about the future? I am the type who sets goals and wants a good future but then he'd just settle for less. I realized that he can't really handle or take care of me. I can't explain how I feel, it's just so abstract. There are no exact words to describe how I feel. It's just different. I imagine my future with him but then he isn't like me who aims to do better and progress in life.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Hi my friend phyrethyme, I think now your getting to be matured, anyone wants someone who could think of the future a head. Especially when you getting serious with the relationship, and seriously involve, but things sometimes it's unfair. When you only want the best future for you and him. That is an approach of real love. Have a nice day to you! Sorry for the late reply! Keep on smiling!
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• Philippines
1 Feb 09
I just imagined.. :) When I visualize it, it's like there's no end. Of course it would be better for my partner and I to "grow" but if he settles for less, then we're not going anywhere.. Thanks.
• Philippines
29 Jan 09
It takes a lot to make me fall out of it, since as long as the guy treats me like a woman everything's okay. It takes a bunch of traumatic experiences for me to fall out of it. I don't know--cheating and abuse, that's what can get me out of love, out of the relationship.
@n30wing (4771)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I think their are a lot of reason to fall out of love for me, one is cheating, abuse me mentally, taken me for granted, not reciprocating with my love for her anymore, when I forget about myself, when it's getting to be a one sided relationship. But I just charge it to experience, and learned from this. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!