Girls, what do you like in a guy?
January 15, 2009 1:37am CST
Hello ladies out there! I just want to know what qualities a guy must have for you to like him? I'm talking about both physical and inner qualities. What are the standards that you are considering? Please share. We guys are excited to know. Thank you very much!
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15 Jan 09
It's a loaded question when someone asks what is your ideal guy. Honesty is first and foremost. Funny is good and I am weak for shy. Something about a shy guy that I find somewhat appealing. Romance is nice but too much the guy is sappy. I like a guy who is of course thoughtful and caring. Active and engaging. Someone who loves his mother and pets. A good listener and one who speaks from his heart, loyal to his friends and dedicated to his job. Major points if he knows how to and enjoys to cook. Someone who carries themselves well, is confident and attractive. Attractive? To each their own. I can tolerate some hair but I prefer a smooth chest and no full beards. At least 6' and 185lbs. Hair color makes no different but a military cut drives me wild. Basic standards include politeness and respect with confidence. Does that excite you? Loud Party animals are a turn off.
• Boise, Idaho
19 Jan 09
A real person. Someone who doesn't feel they need to say what they think you want to hear. Someone independent and allowing the same in a woman. A manly man, not efeminant. A man who is positive and spirted. Not real skinny. A man with ethics, character and that is a gentleman.
• United States
16 Jan 09
Great qualities we woman like in a man are 1. Makes us laugh 2. Makes us feel secure 3. Has goals 4.Clean nails and shoes 5.Well dressed 6.Show affection 7.He's always got your back no matter what 8.Great kisser 9.Great lover 10.No committment issues
15 Jan 09
Hello markmoney. When it comes to physical, I like a guy who is much taller than me. Like say 5'4 or 5'5, because Im 5'3. I like a guy who has a medium build, someone who has a clean haircut, No pierce and tattos. When it comes to inner qualities, I like a guy who is down to earth, God-fearing, passionate about his work and family, faithful and loyal, understanding, patience, and respect.
15 Jan 09
Honestly,I am not after the looks of a guy. I not care if he is not a matinee idol or an actor. Just as long as he looks good and smart, it is fine with me. I am not looking for a perfect guy after all. I can say that I am very attracted to intelligent guys. Weather he is talkative or not, as long as he make sense in his talking, I will surely like him. I also want a guy who have a sense of humor. Someone who is not that too serious all the times.I am just human and sometimes, I go through sad moments in my life. And during those times, I just want a guy who can make me smile. A man who can make me realize I have thousand reasons to smile and be happy with my life.I also want a responsible guy whom for sure will not neglect me. Whenever we face problems in relationship, I not want him to be dependent on me. But, what I want is for him to look also for a solution on certain problems.An honest guy is a must also for all girls. He must not play love just because he know he can with his looks. An intelligent but a playboy will surely make me turn off. In a nutshell, I can say that what I really want is a true man.It is easy to be a man. As soon as you get out of your mother's womb, you are already a man. What difficult is to stand being a true man. I can say that my standards are quite difficult. It take me so many years before I finally find the guy I am looking for.But I can say that it is worth waiting for. And as of now, I can say to myself that God blessed me so much for having my boyfriend now who have what I wants in a man.
15 Jan 09
Oh, it's good to know what your type of guy is. I'm sure guys out there get some hints. And I want to congratulate you for finding the right guy. Goodluck to both of you, I hope your relationship will end up in front of the altar. Thanks for sharing. Have a nice day!
15 Jan 09
as a girl i like to response to this discussion..everyone have its own character with them..that is a unique one..we cant define this..this taste is differ from girl to girl..in my point of view..the man should be very true in his love..if he is true with me..i can change him to my way..the true love is a impossible one..it is not to get..it s a gods gift..only few girls can get it..have a nice time
15 Jan 09
Well, I think you're right. When a guy loves a woman, he is willing to serve his girl, whatever she wanted, the guy will do his best to serve his girl. But of course the guy should know if she is just playing with him or not, because he may just be taken for granted. Haha, but I respect your view. A true princess really have to be served. Thanks for your response.