In your relationship now, have you ever asked your gf/bf about their ex.?

@n30wing (4767)
Philippines
January 15, 2009 11:34pm CST
I do, it's part of our relationship, and that is honesty. It's the past because it's the past that makes us who we are.I really need to know what kind of relationship I am getting into. How about you guys? Have a nice day to all of you!
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elitess
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
17 Jan 09
Hi there friend. I have asked my girl about her ex-es and she about my ex-es as i feel is a natural part of a relationship to know a little history about your partner - the thing is that if you are going to inquire about this sort of things, you must be ready to accept them for what they are as what is in the past can't be changed now, like the saying says "What's done is done".
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n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
I like your response my friend elitess, but I think it's just part of the relationship getting to know her more. Well pass is pass. What is done is done. What is finish is finished. Life has to go on. And when you love someone you love her for what is she. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
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elitess
@elitess (5070)
• Ipswich, England
17 Jan 09
Thanks for the Best Response. Yes that's exactly what i am thinking, you want to know the past, but you have to love the present, and dream of the future ^_^
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
I am proud of my friend here who managed to get the BEST RESPONSE... NO DOUBT! I am even amazed with your latest comment bro... let me quote if you may " you want to know the past, but you have to love the present, and dream of the future^_^" Anybody would surely like that! Thanks for the share. And to MY DEAR FRIEND who post this topic... KUDOS for you... HATS OFF bro... very nice topic and interesting indeed! GREAT DISCUSSION MAKER and I am proud to have a friend LIKE YOU!
aisaellis22
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
17 Jan 09
Hello n30wing! I do asked my husband about his exes. I asked him about his ex - wife, his ex - girlfriends when he was young and everything and I asked him about why do broke up or something. He can't ask me about exes because he is my first boyfriend so I have nothing to say for.
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n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
Well his very lucky to have you my friend. Well I do asked her but sometimes she just don't wanna answer my question. She just answer me I love you. Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
aisaellis22
@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
18 Jan 09
thank you..I am very lucky to have him as well..
Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
16 Jan 09
Of course we should ask that... to be totally honest with our future partner. And really know who they really are... because previous relationships are a real mirror of what is happening around us TODAY. Thanks for a nice topic my friend.
n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
Well I do the same brow. Maybe it's part of knowing her more!Honesty is best policy! I miss you my friend! Where have you been? I hope your doing great! God bless! Keep on smiling!
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Jhordie
@Jhordie (5115)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
I am back... Just been busy with my studies lately. BUT NOW... I am so ALIVE and still KICKING! Thanks for the appreciation of my responses bro. It means so much to me. :)
Astro30
@Astro30 (90)
• Indonesia
18 Jan 09
I don't like to know it, let it stay as past. Because I know i won't like what I heard.
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kryssyxxx
@kryssyxxx (29)
• Canada
16 Jan 09
hi, yeah i ask my bf's about they're ex's. Im not sure if its curiosity or if it's to know how it ended. They say once a cheater always a cheater. I guess most guys would be dishonest and say they never cheated although they have ( same for women ).
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n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
That made me laugh out loud my friend. Well there is still honest guys, and telling the truth. When my fiancee asked me questions some I do answer it directly some are I change the topic hahaha! Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
marie_cehl
@marie_cehl (50)
• Philippines
28 Jan 09
Yes. Actually I asked him when he was still courting me. It was also my way of background check with him. How was he as his gf and why they did not last together.:D
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bigbusiness3544
@bigbusiness3544 (50)
• United States
17 Jan 09
I am actually currently in a relationship with a girl that I used to be good friends with her ex. Her ex and her have a kid together now and obviously they do not go out anymore but I live up north east and she lives down south and I want to go home to her.
n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
Why don't you! I feel like you miss her so much already! If there is a will there is a way! Have a nice day to you! Keep on smiling!
donnakristel
@donnakristel (1704)
• Philippines
6 Feb 09
yes, i do. but sometimes insecurities striking you. because if they have a wonderful time together or what and you don't.