forbidden love and betrayal
January 16, 2009 12:22am CST
this is actually a problem of my friend who badly needs my help... i dont know what to do also coz it is very complicated.u see he has gf but he confess to me just few days now dat he has an affair with his officemate. da problem is that da girl ho he had an affair with is very possessive.plus dat girl didnt know also dat my friend has a gf... da problem when dagirl knew about that, that my friend has a gf... the girl is threathening my friend right now that she will do everything to ruin his career... which she had done already... my friend is afraid right that hi license will be rovoked... what shall he do?
• United States
20 Jan 09
Well, your friend, knowing he was already involved with someone else, should not have done that...period...but...not everyone is perfect...so since he has done that he has to deal with the results of his actions...i think he should have been upfront about everything...so that the chick could know where she stood and how to play her position if she chose to take that job so to speak...but now that it's done all he can do is hope she doesn't do whatever it is she is threatening...because at this point...he truly has no control over the situation that he, himself, has created.
18 Jan 09
Tell him to clean up his act, period. I'm curious to know cutieapril, what's your "unbiased" view of your friends predicament? Do you sympathize with him because he is your friend, or because you think what he did is right? If you are indeed his friend, you should let him know that what he did is wrong, and is unfair to both ladies, specially his girlfriend.
• United States
16 Jan 09
Hello cutieapril! If I will be very rude, I would say it serves him right. That's the result of his action. Honestly, I don't know what's the right thing he would do. Probably, he has to choose one now but like what you said, if he will choose his first gf, it would be trouble. The right thing he could do maybe talk to the office girl, explain and everything. I don't know whom he love most, whether his first gf or the office girl.