Is not 21 enough to marry?

January 16, 2009 7:39pm CST
Birth, Marriage and Death are the most important chapter of everybody's life. Your birth date is fixed and you have no power to change it. Similarly the day you will die cannot be changed. You can only change your marriage day! Tell me is 21 not enough to marry? I think it is the perfect tome to be coupled. Whats about you?
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@manoj1502 (854)
• India
17 Jan 09
Its all depends on the person not on the whole what you think is right In point of view after when i start earning from that after a 1to2years will marry thats at the age of 25 to 26.
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18 Jan 09
That's a good idea
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• India
17 Jan 09
i think at age of 23 you get to understand the world better and is the right age to marry.i am unmarried as i am only 20.i marry at the age of 23.i feel 21 is enough for the individual ,to get married.happy myloting and have a nice day...
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17 Jan 09
okkayy friend. Thank you
@sanuanu (11238)
• India
17 Jan 09
In my country, 21 is the age to marry for a boy and 18 for a girl. Now, what happens in my city that people are getting married at the age of 30+. As I am also 27 and I am not marrying in recent years.
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17 Jan 09
27+ my God. If it occurs to me, I just will disappear
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@sanuanu (11238)
• India
17 Jan 09
Why do you want to marry so early in your life?
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17 Jan 09
I am getting bored with my single life.
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@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Hello neelshopno123! I married at the age of 21 actually. I think it's the right age because I already graduated in college.
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19 Jan 09
Wow! great! So there is still people like me who want to marry at 21! Thank you aisaellis. Be happy in your life.
• United States
19 Jan 09
yes, you're right..actually it doesn't matter when and how as long as you're both stable and free, marriage would be anytime..because we never know when love comes along.
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20 Jan 09
That's right, we don't know when and where love comes!
• United States
18 Jan 09
I have to say I agree with alot of the posts on here....timing is when you find the right person and it feels right, not about age... you have to be ready for marriage... it is hard enough!! I was 24 and my husband was 25.... and we had dated for 6 yrs before we got married...and we travelled alot before we we got married. so when we did get married it was right for us.
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18 Jan 09
Happy to learn about you
@rymebristol (1788)
• Philippines
17 Jan 09
21 is a legit age to settle down. nowadays, younger people do get married at a very young age, some are as young as 18 years old and the sad fact is that at 18 years old shes already pregnant. i think settling down, financial capability should be taken into great consideration specially at these time of age. i myself promise that i won't get married unless i can provide 100% to my family...and that is emotionally, spiritually and financially. if you think that you meet all of that, then go and enjoy being with someone forever.
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18 Jan 09
Thank you. I will go with someone forever
@initiald (16)
• Indonesia
17 Jan 09
i think 21 is not enough to marry. Because you know, at that ages people are labil especially for teen. And I think they will make decision without thinking seriously.. You know how teens resolve problem, don't you? They think only based how the situation right there not the situation that will be by choosing that decision.. So I think the right age to marry is about 24 for girl and 25 for boys.lol
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18 Jan 09
wait a second! I think a boy or girl of 21 is quite capable to have decision.
• United States
17 Jan 09
The right age to marry will vary from person to person. In the US, legally, most states require both the male and female be at least 18 years old to get married. Some states will let younger people get married if they have parental consent. I was married when I was 18 and my husband was 19. We were having a baby, and planned to get married when we were older, but we moved things up due to my pregnancy. And while there were times that it was difficult to be married at that age, and we had a lot of challenges to overcome, I believe it was right for us. I had friends, though, that were certainly not ready for marriage at that age. Most still weren't ready when they were 21. I know a few people in their 30's that aren't ready for marriage. The perfect time to get married is when you have found the person you want to spend the rest of your life with and BOTH of you are ready to make that commitment. Age has nothing to do with it (providing you are both of legal age, of course).
17 Jan 09
Thank you for your response. I completely agree with you.
@legend4u (1019)
• India
19 Jan 09
i think 21 is too early. there is no way that one guy will be equipped by himself to take care of a family with his own earning at that age(unless his father was a very rich man and he is dum).i think the right age will be 25 and more than that(
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