what are the features of a good listener?

January 17, 2009 2:51am CST
i am definitely not a good listener. could someone tell me how to be a god listener. i feel fatigued while listening... i dont know why?
2 responses
@arthi_88 (1518)
• India
18 Jan 09
You feel fatigued while listening because you are actually thinking about something else deep inside your mind...While listening to somebody pay concentration from the very first word..Ask if you don't understand anything cause the person will realize that you were listening..Keeping eye contact helps in listening and understanding properly...And keep in mind that if you aren't listening to a person there's an equally great chance that the person won't listen when you will speak your point to him...Have a nice day!
• China
17 Jan 09
try to make eye contact with the spoker.and nod you head when one problem is finished.usually ask some about you didnt understand.smill when the spoker told somthing funny.