Do you eavesdrop?

I have never done that before. I respect my friends' privacy. If they had wanted me to join in, they would had probably done so. It never passed my mind they could probably be talking about me unless proven to be so. This did happen several times but I prefer giving the benefit of doubt (hope I got it right) tp those who have not done so. The point is I have other things to do and think of, rather than worrying what my friends are talking about. After all if we cannot trust others and discipline ourselves we are bound to cross the boundary. all the best, rosdimy

that all depends on who these people are, if I am close to them that I would want to go over and join in, If I have too much work that I cannnot leave my desk, if I even like them and want to listen to what they are saying at my desk, we don't always like every office mate equally,

Well, ok no I don't. I work in the factory and don't do it there as well. I really don't care what they are talking about. If I walk up and there talking I wait for them to get done and don't try to listen. They say your trying to hear what we are saying I tell them no I need the boss here to approve my job that I'm running. Now I just interupt them and that makes them mad also. Can't win. Well, you have a good day. Your friend onlydia

Yes. If all of that people forming circle and talking of something are my friends. Of course I would be curious to know specially if they would do unusually. But. if those people are all my detractors, I would never go in instead proceed of what I have been doing. I just don't know if I am the one whom they are talking about.Thanks

Well, i may walk up and shamelessly join them.