Does Anyone Know What Happened To....?????

@pyewacket (44036)
United States
January 18, 2009 12:01am CST
I was just looking at my friend's list and yikes so many of my friends haven't been here in ages, but one particular person I'm concerned about is Lecanis....you folks who are "old-timers" here would remember her and she had a lot of serious issues with her son as he had a lot of serious medical problems--so has anyone heard from her? Another person is Aidonia...she did email me a few months ago and the news she was telling me wasn't good...and now she seems to have disappeared again..she too was having real serious issues as well.
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• United States
21 Jan 09
Pye I have just emailed her. I have her personal email and I will see if it gets kicked back as a bad address or if she responds. I did tell her she is missed here.
@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
21 Jan 09
Keep me posted...another friend has been inactive here as well and I did have her email but unfortunately it bounced back to me
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• United States
25 Jan 09
pye her email was not bounced back to me and she has not answered me. I hope she is fine.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
25 Jan 09
Maybe they just don't have internet service anymore????
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@celticeagle (119880)
• Boise, Idaho
18 Jan 09
I am sorry to say I don't recall either of these people. I have been on Mylot since Spring 2008. I hope you have an email address and can get ahold of them.Good luck.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
19 Jan 09
I do have the email address for one of them, and have emailed her but she hasn't responded in about a month
@celticeagle (119880)
• Boise, Idaho
19 Jan 09
But the address is good? It went through? Makes you wonder.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
19 Jan 09
Yes, my email did go through, at least it didn't bounce back to me.
@mentalward (14695)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I don't know about them, but I've noticed some others have vanished as well... others who also were going through some serious stuff. It worries me, too! One in particular, for me, is miraclefreebies. She's an awfully nice person and always has a kind word for everyone. She has a young baby and a husband who, from listening to her, was not a very nice guy. She hasn't been seen in weeks now and gave no indication that she would be away for awhile. Don't you just hate that? We can make some good friends on the internet and feel so inadequate when they just up and disappear! Maybe I watch too much of those 'Cold Case Files', but it really worries me when these friends disappear and we know that they've been having some serious problems. All I can say is that I hope they turn up! Even if it's just an email to say they're still alive and kicking, that's better than nothing! I hope you find the friends you're speaking of.
@rocketj1 (6960)
• United States
20 Jan 09
Miraclefreebies is still around! Just posted on a discussion from her yesterday!
@mentalward (14695)
• United States
20 Jan 09
Yeah, I saw that! Weird coincidence, huh? Maybe she felt my 'vibes' and came back! She said she had been gone for weeks, so I wasn't imaginging things. LOL
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
Hi pyewacket! I am sorry but I don't know what happened to both of them. I am also concerned with a few friends in my list who have not been active so much lately and haven't received any news from them. I have been going through all those in my friends' list since this morning and have found out that many are in inactive status and a few have not been logging for several months. It is sad when friends you have grown to care here just disappear without knowing nothing what has been happening to them. I hope and pray that all are fine and they are just busy with some activities. Take care and enjoy life! lovelots..faith210
@faith210 (11233)
• Philippines
20 Jan 09
Hi dear! A friend told me that his account was set by the admin to inactive status because he thinks he was banned. He was not aware of it until he logged in to his account and found out that it was set into inactive status. He didn't close his account personally but the admin did. Well, that was according to him. And I think that is true because mots mylot members who are inactive here for months and months can still access their account. lovelots..faith210
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@guybrush (4660)
• Australia
21 Jan 09
It IS a worry when people on myLot 'disappear' - there's no way of us knowing whether they are okay and just having a break from myLot - or whether they've been banned, suspended or something else is wrong. Many people are also worried about Transdisc, whose account seems to be 'inactive'. I hope you've had some news on Lecanis by now!
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
21 Jan 09
Nope unfortunately still haven't heard anything from her...I did leave a PM to her just in case
@sukumar794 (5047)
• Thiruvananthapuram, India
19 Jan 09
AS for me , I was away from this forum on account of cardiac ailment which has been troubling me for long. Now I am recovering though at a slow pace. Life style changes have brought in development of healthy attitudes.
@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
21 Jan 09
OMG--I sure hope you get to feel one-hundred percent better
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@LadyMarissa (12161)
• United States
19 Jan 09
Pye, Lecanis has not made an entry on her blog since May 10,2008. It appears she gave up there just before leaving here. There was a note For those of you who don't know my son's health situation, he's been having seizures and having to travel to see specialists and have tests, so since some of my friends wanted to donate to help us out, I put a button on the page for it. Thanks in advance for anything you can give! Maybe her time with her son became more important than her time online!!! Or maybe the specialists costs her so much she couldn't keep her internet connection. I pray that everything is OK in her life!!!
@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
21 Jan 09
That's a shame..I knew she had a lot of problems with her son's health and I think she had her own health problems as well. And yes, maybe all the medical bills made her cut off her internet. That happened to another friend of mine...she was very active here, but had to undergo her own surgeries....her health plan didn't cover it all and she and her husband had to pay out of pocket...she hasn't been here now for seven months! Think we need to keep both in our prayers
@murugezh (273)
• India
19 Jan 09
I am sorry I too don't know about these people hope they will come again...
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
25 Jan 09
I hope so too
18 Jan 09
Hi pye, It is such a shame when they disappear, as I have a lot of friends gone that way, within the seen months that I've been here there has been quite a lot of my friends gone, I would really love to know what has happened to them or they just got fedup with mylot and gone else where, wish they could have said goodbye. Bright Blessings. Tamara
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
28 Jan 09
I wish my different friends who decided not to be here anymore could have told all of us of their plans and if they weren't coming back too
@Shar19 (8236)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Sorry I don't know what happened to them.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
21 Jan 09
Shame huh?
@OURDEW (4812)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I was also wondering about Lecanis and a few others. Maybe you know about any one of these MIA. Terryz, peanutjar, ctrymuziklvr, THKOhio, 4cuteboys and brendakaya. Those are a few that were pretty active and haven't been here a quite some time. I do worry about them, I hope that everything is ok and that someday we hear from them, one way or another.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
25 Jan 09
Well Terry had to stop her internet service...that's what she said in her very last email to me, since she had that operation remember? She told me that the health insurance didn't cover everything and was going to have to pay out of pocket..in order to pay her bills she was going to have to disconnect from internet and haven't heard from her in months...as for peanutjar...nope haven't heard anything there.. I did privately email her but the email would bounce...as fr ctry...no idea either.
• United States
18 Jan 09
I don't know Aidonia but I do remember Lecanis and I have been wondering about her as well. She is on my friends list and I also have her on my yahoo messenger. I remember quite a while back she had mentioned in one of her discussions that due to her increasing medical bills for her son and other things that she might not be able to afford internet much longer. She stated that she was going to try to maintain internet but was not sure if she would be able to. I am wondering if she didn't end up having to cancel her internet service after all because I have not seen her sign into messenger in ages either. I hope everything is going okay for her.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
25 Jan 09
That's particularly sad to know that maybe the medical bills were so high she couldn't afford internet anymore. I have another friend an old-timer here in the same situation....she had an operation and the health insurance didn't cover everything so last she emailed me to tell me she was letting go of internet...it's been many months and I guess she still can't afford it
@zandi458 (27952)
• Malaysia
18 Jan 09
Unfortunately these two people you mentioned are unfamiliar with me and I have not seen any of their posts either. It is good to have people like you Pye, we are concern with friends. They must be in your close circle of friends that made you noticed their MIA in mylot. When you say they have serious health problems it maybe be the reasons they are not able to come in here or maybe for some other reasons they do not want to be active here anymore. We will never know what happen to our friends who never say their last 'goodbyes' but just disappear leaving us wondering and worried as they have given the clues that they are not healthy. Could they have moved on or....unless until they reappear here we remain puzzle for a long time to come but lets hope that they are still around.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
25 Jan 09
The two were very early friends of mine when I first joined up so they were old timers here as well. In fact, so many of the "old-timers" are no longer here,only I'd say a handful of my friends...so it's kind of sad and can't help wondering where they are and if they're all right...It's even more worrying when I have the emails addresses of some of them and don't even reply to them..yes, I can see maybe not coming back here, but strange when they don't answer private emails
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Ya knwo I was just thinkin about her again the other day..I've not seen her in here in months..I hope she's okay though...I think about her often but just figured that she got fed up with the nonsense here and was taking a break...I know her son had med issues though but she did too?? I hope they are well damn it, I really like her..Have you tried emailin her recently at all Pye
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
20 Jan 09
Yes I think she had medical issues too..nope, don't have her email addy
• United States
18 Jan 09
I don't know what happened with Lecanis. I hope she and her son are doing well. If you have her email address I have a feeling you tried reaching her that way. I didn't know Aidonia.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
20 Jan 09
No unfortunately I don't have lecanis' email
@jpso138 (7868)
• Philippines
18 Jan 09
Hi pyewacket, I am a little bit new here and have not heard about the two of them. But I sure hope that the two of them will be able to read and reply to this post of yours. They belong to mylot and me being a part of the myLot family is also concerned. I am sure that you too are very much concerned the reason why you have posted this. So let us hope that both of them are fine and that they will be able to post soon.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
20 Jan 09
I really do hope they are okay...noticed on my friends list quite a number of people who haven't been around in months either and they used to be here all the time
@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Hello pyewacket! Actually, I don't know them because I am just a new member here. But I am concerned about them as well. I hope they are fine and that I hope I could meet them pretty soon.
@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
19 Jan 09
I hope they are okay and come back here soon too....miss seeing them here
@mrsjbelle (1641)
• United States
18 Jan 09
Oh yes, I remember. These are good questions. I sure hope someone knows because sadly I don't. Lecanis is you read this please let us know you are ok. It's sweet that you care enough about your online friends to miss them. I hope I have friends like that. Have a good night.
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@pyewacket (44036)
• United States
19 Jan 09
Would be nice if Lecanis does read this...hope she comes back here
@Thoroughrob (11750)
• United States
18 Jan 09
I have not heard anything from either of them. Although I only know of Lecanis. There are quite a few of my friends missing. Hope they are all well.
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@lingli_78 (12844)
• Australia
19 Jan 09
i remember lecanis and i used to answer to her discussions... i also remember that she has problem with her son as well... i am wondering where she is though... hope she will be fine and well... i'm not very familiar with aidonia though... another person that i had been asking about is mooch... do you remember her and do you know what happened to her??? she used to be the top user here with the most number of posts next to her name... she has some problems with her health as well... take care and have a nice day...