is it a sin to reject somebody love?
January 18, 2009 10:40am CST
sometime we are not ready for love or fear of any commitment and we reject love but later on we never find love and we regret whole life.what we should do,accept it or nt
19 Jan 09
Love is a commitment. Ones you accept it you have to prepare your whole being about the changes it might cause you. Then if you are not yet ready to accept a commitment then I guess your just being honest to yourself and to the other person involve. It is not wrong or sin to reject a commitment besides you will be the one that will suffer or benefit from it in the end.
19 Jan 09
Hello THere! No, it is not a sin to reject someone if you are not really to commit in a relationship. It is better to tell him/her directly that you are not really to be involved with a realationship right now with anyone than accept his/her love but cannot return the same feelings to that person... youwill just end up hurting him. Regarding with "you wil not find love" thing... I do not think that is true. It is either you are meant to be single or time is not right... you know... maybe you need to do something in your life like focus on your family, friends or career before the right person comes along. Be patient. Sometimes it knocks on your door (heart) when you least expected it. Try to indulge or enjoy what you have right now. If it is the right time and meant to be, I am sure that it will all work out just fine... your love wiill find you. Thank you for the discussion! Have a great day and happy Mylotting! Cheers!
18 Jan 09
It all depends upon what our heart says at thet very moment,at least that holds good for me. If I don't feel attracted for somebody,there is no r reason i SHOULD ACCEPT HER PROPOSAL,AS IN THAT CASE i WOULD BE CHEATING BOTH MYSELF & THE OTHER PERSON INVOLVED. So denying a proposal is never a crime,if you are genuinely not interested. But yes,cheating someone or betraying someone who is in love with you is one of the most serious crime. So we should try our best to avoid that.
18 Jan 09
If you're asking Ïs it a sin to reject somebody's love?"I should say it is not. Being true to somebody is not a sin, you're just being fair and being true and fair are never been a sin. If you accept his love just because you dont want to hurt him but deep inside you really dont feel anything you're being unfair to him in all aspect, unfair in the sense that what you're showing to him is not really what you feel and as time pass by and you cant stand his presence anymore you will leave him also and you'll still hurt hi As we wanted to have somebody to love and we find no one we sometimes regret and what we have on the past but i think it's not a proper to think in that way, we need to live in our present not in our past. It is proper just to accept it and learn from its lesson that we have on that situation.
18 Jan 09
Hi there happygill. I don't think that its a sin to reject someone because of that reason. Accepting love for the reason of not living alone in the future is not a good idea for me. I think its better if you first learn why you fear love and try to work it out.