What is the most beautiful moment of a wedding ceremony?

Wow deepak really appreciate the intentions of Bhabi jee at Wedding Day, LOL joke aside i am sure u must be doing well and one more thing Wish u all the best ob upcoming wedding Anniversary Take care

Oh deepak See How wisely Rose08 is helping u and i am sure u must have invited her on ur wedding day any way its not too late LOL

Hi Dpk.......this is really a hilarious comment.......But please do inform me the date of your wedding anniversary which you say is round the corner.Then I will remind you to buy an expensive present for Bhabhijee on the D-day and to take her out for dinner,lest you forget this important occasion and be subject to her wrath..... But Dpk if you had invited me for your wedding I would have given you some expert advise and protected you from crying...The fact is ,even though both of you are of same height,you should have bowed your head beforebhabhijee ,just once ,while she was garlanding you.Then she would have been impressed by your humility and grace and would never ever had resolved to make you cry your entire life...... And Dpk...its not too late now to follow my advise....Good luck Dpk...If you ever have any more problems I am always there to guide you and protect you.........

Ha ha ha Rose08 i know all r my friends hmmmm well every day was memorable as every one was happy, specially my parents and sisters Well on That Day, it was seperate arrangement for Mens and woman, first i was seated in Mens Area, and after Saying "YES" three times when Scholar (Maulana) ask me about her, signed the paper, Then they went to Bridal room, to get he agreement and sign, after that she was brought at stage at ladies side. then i was taken to ladies side and sit aside her, and there were crowds of girls for "dodh pilai" and other customs but trust me i get her out of there

Well Cupie you can recollect at least some unforgetful moments during those 3 days...Like did your hands shiver when you signed the certificate etc.I am sure the bride wears a veil on her head during the ceremony and werent you anxious for her to lift her veil so that you could gap at her beautiful face.........etc etc.......come on cupie,sharmaoo mathe.......we are all your dear friends........

Yes Cupie I am sure your parents and sisters were RELIEVED to see you married at last......And I know about your customs during marriage where the bride and groom are made to sit separately till the ceremony is over.......I am sure some of our Western freinds here will be surprised about this custom......I think one person has commented in this discussion that "kissing the bride" is the most important event in a wedding.......Our weddings are so solemn and such public display of affection especially on wedding day would be shocking............Infact we barely get a glimpse of our partner during the ceremony.......he..he.....

Thanks for sharing this Mimpi. Although i had a brief idea about it, i never knew the significance in terms of each round , the first,the second...Now that i understood it better it seems so much more meaningful. The fire, the stage,the setting,the attire, the parents, even the priest rambling away..all in thier own way added so much to make this particular moment a memorable one. And here i am giving a spectator/wellwishers perspective. I'm sure the moment would have had a deeper meaning and significance to those who would have actually experienced it.

although i have been to many hindu wedding,i didnot clerly understand the full meaning of saat-phere.thanks for explaing it

Indian weddings are full of intricate and sometimes funny rituals. All community have different kinds of customs and makes the weddings unique. The Saat Phere in Hindu custom is amazing. I heard that it instills an unimaginable feeling that's to last life long! And we often miss out the vows that the couple take while doing the rounds. It's so meaningful! Its certainly one of the most precious moments. [i]Here is a write up on the significance of the Saat Phere, I found on internet: The custom of Seven Vows/Saat Phere has had a rich historical extravaganza to it. There are a total seven vows made during the Saat Phere - the seven rounds. In the first round or phera, the couple prays to God for plenty of nourishing and pure food. They pray to God to let them walk together so that they will get food. In the second round, the couple prays to God for a healthy and prosperous life. They ask for the physical, spiritual and mental health from God. In the third Phera the couple prays to God for wealth. They ask God for the strength for both of them so that they can share the happiness and pain together. Also, they pray so that they can walk together to get wealth. In the fourth round the couple prays to God for the increase in love and respect for each other and their respective families. The bride and groom together pray for the beautiful, heroic and noble children from God in the fifth step. In the sixth holy round around the fire, the couple asks for the peaceful long life with each other. In the final seventh round the couple prays to god for companionship, togetherness, loyalty and understanding between themselves. They ask God to make them friends and give the maturity to carry out the friendship for lifetime. The husband says to his new wife that now they have become friends after the Seven Vows/Saat Phere and they will not break their friendship in life. [/i]

This time I think you are right to some extent cupid.......I am confused, and it is true that my life changed after I left India.But still I feel India was ingnorance, so a dream, and now it is reality ,so bitter...., and thanks for always being there for me.

Hi Apsa somehow i dont know that why i feel its not true reply, or atleast its hiding HALF TRUTH. why i feel, it was great till u decided to move from India!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and i am sure u still remember ur wedding day. May be,i am wrong, but still

Hi aps dear....Yes I know most of us women, can recall our wedding day with a little apprehension only because for us its a major uprooting from our parents house to a new house and family,and suddenly we are burdened with new responsiblities and positions.....Infact marriage ceremony marks the transition of an ordinary "Nari" to "nari sakthi" in due course of time.......ha..ha.........some one strong enough for your husband,children and in laws to lean on..........Kya khayal hai Apsara jee??

I guess, everyone is nervous and kind of have butterflies in the stomach all through. It's most special! taking vows and exchanging rings are wonderful. Leaves us with a inexplicable feeling! Wish you a blessed life together.

hahaha..yes, you're right..thanks for your wish..

You are welcome aisaellis.

Thanks for the response, however, you were also supposed to recall special moments of your wedding day.............'did not mention' about those.

Rose - Pl. see my response.

Well Dpk......this is all I can remember about my wedding day...Its been over 26 years...and most other things,events are appearing a bit hazy to me.....

That's indeed special! I think, this Haiku is most definitely for you dear. Read and enjoy. http://www.associatedcontent.com/article/1442949/you_may_now_kiss_the_bride.html?cat=42

Its most touching and the earnestness shows they belong to each other till forever.

that's so sweet faith. I guess he is an emotional person and love you very much. have a wonderful life.

And you make me cry....

See! That's the magic of it all! Wish you more love, luck and everything that you want in life.

thank you for the BR mimpi! Tears still welled from my eyes as I read this response again. Thanks so much!

touching moment indeed!

Great moments indeed!

We have similar customs here and the moment when the four eyes meet is amazing and indescribable.

I agree golgappi that's the most poignant and loved moment for a bride. It gives a beautiful feeling of love and belonging.

congratulations dear. wish you a wonderful married life ahead.

All men love that...

That's a great feeling when you are called by your husband's name..