best revenge on a ex

January 20, 2009 2:04pm CST
i just got dumped, we were supposed to get married and found out she never was gonna marry me.
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10 responses
@ds6413 (2073)
• United States
21 Jan 09
Hello, well best to move on and not look back in the past.I know you have probably heard it is better before you actually married her but it is.
@cathya (705)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
am sorry to hear that. maybe you are not really meant for each other. there might be somebody else who is really for you. god bless.
@snowy22315 (58441)
• United States
21 Jan 09
I think the best revenge is living well murdocolips. I went throughout that too. I dumped him when he eventaully came back to me. I bet she will come back and you can do it back if you so desire.
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
really well thats sad... but revenge is not an answer why I tried it before...it never worked...because the feeling is still there..no matter how angry you are, how mad and disaapointed you are to her..do you still love her do you???and what in return is the benefit of revenge..when you make avenge and see her that she's hurting can you accept it by your conscience...my advise is...let your heart heal not now, maybe little by little...its just your angry because you are supposed to be together...relare it to your friends,find things that can help you move on...its an outlet to forget her...
@mansha (6301)
• India
20 Jan 09
Best revenge would be to move on and not let her betrayal affect you in any way. Is hard but must be done and live your life fully , be an achiever and use her experience as a stepping stone to achieve better things in life. Your sucess as a person, as a worker, as a man,as a huband will eventually be the thing that would get her.
@ninaluv (338)
• Nigeria
20 Jan 09
i think you should forgive and forget. you dont pay evil with evil you know. and two wrongs cant make a right. so please, forgive and forget.
• United States
20 Jan 09
I would get some one much hotter than her! and then make sure you go places where she will see you together. Places you go normally so it does not look too obvious. I am a woman and I have to tell you that would kill me if my hubby and me broke up and he got someone younger and prettier.
@Gesusdid (1681)
• United States
20 Jan 09
i think the best revenge is to be on top of things , while shes at her lowest in life , while you , have everything going for yourself while shes like fat and depressed , im just making an example so im just saying thats all lol , get on top of your game and yeah pretty much live your life correctly , let Karma handle her , trust me it ALWAYS works
@kezabelle (2985)
20 Jan 09
Be happy, its the best revenge there is, live your life spend some time getting over her and then move on dont allow her to ruin the rest of your life that is the best revenge it takes time but hurting her wont make you feel better it really wont!
• United States
20 Jan 09
I am so sorry Murdocolips, I dont understand why people say they will marry someone when they have no intentions.... I know of a nephew of a friend that this happened to a couple yrs ago and he is much better for it now, but at the time it was devastating. I hope that in a little bit you will be better for it too... that you learn from this and grow from it... but I know it is not easy for you now.