are you often bothered when your boyfriend or girlfriend is excessively jealous?

Australia
January 21, 2009 1:15am CST
.......or does that character turn you on the more? I have a friend who enjoys seeing his girlfriend get so green with envy over another girl. It's almost like his way of teasing her. He confided to me that he finds it very childish but cute. As for me, I think being over-jealous might just gag me to death.
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@aisaellis22 (6449)
• United States
21 Jan 09
Hello Theresaaiza! You know what, I like my husband to be jealous sometimes because I really that he loves me. But I don't want him to be over - jealous especially over nothing. I mean sometimes, guys who re like that are suspicious and that's not good for a relationship. By the way, I consider myself to be a jealous type of person..hehehe...
@modstar (9617)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
I'm lucky i'm not your husband. lol! Just kidding!!! Just playing hehe.. We're good friends right? ***hugs.
• Australia
21 Jan 09
*tapping ur shoulder* you hugged a married woman! her husband might get jealous. My sangay loves it when he gets jealous.
• United States
22 Jan 09
hehehehe..I might show this discussion to my husband so that my husband will hunt him..which I guess it's impossible..
@sid556 (31019)
• United States
5 Feb 09
i have been with men who are jealous and I don't like it at all. To be jealous is painful and I don't like to see someone that I'm with suffer at all. On the flip side...it is insulting...I do nothing to bring it on. My sympathy towards a jealous partner will eventually and rather quickly turn to a turn off. Anyone that goes out of their way to make someone jealous is just cruel.
• Australia
5 Feb 09
Yes, definitely. Do you believe that a person who is excessively jealous is actually the one who's guilty?
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@sid556 (31019)
• United States
5 Feb 09
yes, actually I've seen it happen a lot. Not always but more than you would imagine. You'd think it would be the opposite...why would someone so afraid of being cheated on go out and cheat? Makes no sense to me but it happens all the time.
• Australia
6 Feb 09
If I was cheating, I'd become extra sweeter so my guy won't notice. LOL.
@modstar (9617)
• Philippines
21 Jan 09
That reason alone cause my ex the relationship she didn't want to lose. She's so freaking over-jealous that sometimes it felt like i was most pogi guy in the world. her jealousy is pissing me off big time that we argue about it all the time. We just can't move on with the relationship because i've been hearing complaints here and there. She even got jealous one time with my male friends because they're eating up too much of our time when they're not. I've been spending my time with my girlfriend mondays to saturdays then on saturday she would tell me "can we meet tomorrow?" when she already know that it's my "friend's day". When i say no then she would sulk like a kid. I was on a leash. That prompted me to break up with her. Now she's married to an American and she's in Utah now. She's a mormon. I do hope to never see her face again.
• United States
21 Jan 09
Hello modstar! I am glad you're not my husband..hehehe..I am kidding!! Of course, we're friends.
• Australia
21 Jan 09
So that's the origin of the ninja! Hmmmm. Okay so there's an OFW, a single mom, and a leasher. :-D hi aisa, nice to see you. You still look 16 to me. I swear.