who do u prefer....

That's a good question, sayasakti! I guess who we tell our problems to depend on what and who is involved in the problem. If it's a family problem, I usually seek out someone who just listens. A stranger in a bar could be fine or a person who doesn't know much about you or the people involved. If it's a problem of romantic nature, I usually keep it to myself. I find it difficult to tell my problems to a lover. It has been my problem ever since. Perhaps, I get embarrassed or I don't want him to worry about my personal problems.

Hi there Sayasakti! Whenever I have a problem, the first person that I tell about it is my husband. We have been best friends even before we got into a relationship, got married, and have our own family.