HATE the word LOOSER

India
January 25, 2009 12:12am CST
hi friends, how do you react when someone special call you looser. few day ago i had a bet with my friend that i do some immposible work before a special date but i am not do so before time. so she is now regularly call me a looser. i just want to show her that i am not a looser. how will you manage this situation.
6 responses
@mac_bb (156)
• United States
25 Jan 09
ha ha ha i hate losing to as far as it goes with him next time he calls a loser mollywop (a swift left and a sharp right ;)) his a$s... ha ha ha just jokin. but seriously your friend is just pokin fun i am sure, i would'nt take it personelly im sur he will forget about it shortly and who knows maybe you win the next bet :)
• India
25 Jan 09
i think you are right my dear that she will forget shortly but at that time i can't face her because of only loosing a single bet.how will i face her i don't know, will you give me some advise.
@mac_bb (156)
• United States
25 Jan 09
i would just take it in fun and not that serious becuase its not at all meant to hurt your feelings or question your manhood. and after all you did lose ;) jokes, best of luck
• India
26 Jan 09
thanks,
@fwidman (11515)
• United States
25 Jan 09
You cannot win every time. It sounds like your friend is just having fun with you. I would laugh when she calls you a loser and smile. She will get tired of calling you that until the next time you do not win the bet
• India
25 Jan 09
i also think so, i know that she want to see me a winner next time. and i also want to win next bet, but at that time i am feeling like a looser. do you ever have that feeling.will you share some personal experiance of your.
@fwidman (11515)
• United States
25 Jan 09
At 58, I am certain there have been too many times I have been a loser
• India
25 Jan 09
thanks.
• India
25 Jan 09
i too don't want to become a looser in any aspects... usually the who he don't get angry is according to me is the real WINNER. see,i personally think that anybody hates us or just starring at us can be held by just keeping full calm. there is a saying in india's oldest language sanskrit... "MAUNAM SARVAARTHASAADHAKAM" --it means that keeping silence is the way to gain success in all aspects of our life. keeping calm keeps calm and gains success..... happy mylotting !
• India
26 Jan 09
hi i love the way that how you explain me the meaning of success, i think it will help me to improve myself in all aspects. thanks
@jaffna (778)
• India
25 Jan 09
I do not like three words in ma life ,at first ,as you said,LOOSER.sure we will be getting angry when someone calls you a looser.It's quite natural.Am a girl who win almost all the bets am aiming for and have lost only two bets of ma life of which one is for cricket match and another for soccer club.I end up with great fight tjose two times because ma friend used me the same word.i slapped her and i won't talk to her until and am really a short tempered person on those kind of situations.The next two words are sorry and stupid which i don't like
• India
25 Jan 09
hi jaffna, as you say that you slapped your friend and stop taking with her, but can't do so with my friend to make their mouth shut. but i have the same feeling right now, i am angry on her. i also don't want to talk her. may be i am wrong but what will i do i don't know.
• United States
25 Jan 09
It depends on the situation. If my friends laugh and say, "Wow, you're a loser," regarding something I've done, especially when I geek out on something, no big deal. If someone - friend, family, boss, whoever - says something like, "How can you be such a loser?" or "I can't believe you've turned out to be such a loser," then it stings. But then you have to step back and try to see what they are seeing. Was their statement warranted? If so, how can you fix it? If not, tell them to buzz off and leave you alone.
• India
25 Jan 09
my dear friend, if someone call you looser in front of all your friends in such a way that all people laugh on your work. what do you feel and what are you trying to do to make them shut up.
• Indonesia
25 Jan 09
I will order her to do work you do