Are you a family Man? Are you single?

United States
January 26, 2009 4:24pm CST
I myself am a family man with wife and kids! I remember my single days and they were alot of fun but in the end I think I prefer being the family man? What about you guys? And this is for you ladies also? Are single or Married? Which do you prefer and what do you think the upside and downsides are to both?
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@Firefly99 (251)
• United States
26 Jan 09
I am married and very happy with it! I have three kids and I of course was single once lol! Being single can have its perks. Its nice not to really have to answer to anyone about where you are if you are running late or where you have been. you can go and come as you please but at the same time it gets really lonely sometimes so I think I prefer married life! :)
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• United States
26 Jan 09
Thanks for yourpost
@ElicBxn (60894)
• United States
26 Jan 09
I'm single. I think not having children is a great thing. I think a husband providing extra income might not be too a thing.
• United States
26 Jan 09
How old are you? Do you want kids in the future?
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@ElicBxn (60894)
• United States
26 Jan 09
I'm 55
• India
29 Jan 09
I am still single. This single life is enjoyable and am also enjoying it. But if there is a girl for me means it will be more enjoyable and the life will be more thrill. The married life is quite enjoyable and thrill. In single, we will only enjoy the life. But in married life, we will live for our partner and our kids. I like to enter into the married life to see it.
@family4 (53)
• Canada
29 Jan 09
I prefer being married or attached with children. Being single was fun and I really lived life but once my husband and I started dating seriously the single life didn't appeal to me anymore. At times i think of life before but wouldn't change it for anything. I tell my husband I will be single forever if we split up, i couldn't deal with dating and the single bar scene. I prefer having someone there for me and being wanted even on my worst days. No matter how much your kids hate you or how much you have nagged they still love you and need you.
• United States
27 Jan 09
I'm newly married, as well as a new father. It's definitely been a challenge to adjust to this new life because I spent a great deal of my life single, but I'm slowly but surely getting used to it. It's definitely reassuring to know I finally have a woman in my corner who loves me unconditionally and who'll stand in my corner regardless of how rough things get, instead of leaving me hanging at the first sign of stormy waters!