What if your spouse has an extra marital affair??? How will you react??

I would go see my attorney and kick his butt out! There would be no need for discussion. My sister on the other hand has recently caught her husband having an affair and is calling the woman telling her to stay away from her husband. I think she should do what I would do in that situtation. She also has contact the woman's husband and has told him all about the affair that his wife and her husband has been having.

if he has an affiar then its over just like that no trust no relationship

Our relationship is based on trust and cheating is a major violation of that trust. I don't think I would be able to forgive her and it would probably lead to divorce.

Divorce her......- Forget her.....- Find next.......-

the point comes down to one thing..how much trust is there in the relationship..if two people trust ech other they would atleast think 100 times before betraying..but if a relationship is superficial then the chances of an affair gets high..

That you need to ask is evident in your text body "I don't think...". Dump him. Use this time to find what "self" means and you will naturally/ unknowingly avoid all of this heartache.