Is it wrong to say what you feel and saw for real to your intimate friend?

@davido (1623)
Canada
January 29, 2009 8:14am CST
One was chatting with his intemate friend online and he was telling her that he liked her smile but most above all the lips that they make him wants to kiss her often... and the lady was like the guy was teasing her, this guy did everything possible not to make her feel bad to showw he is not teasing her!!! So is it wrong to say how and what you feel about your intimate friend.
4 responses
• Philippines
30 Jan 09
hi david, i guess telling her the you liked her is not bad BUT how can you be sure that she is accepting it positively if you just met this girl a few days back. sometimes guy should be cautious with his words. you guys have to consider how the girls will react to every words that you will say. remember girls are by nature so sensitive. hope it answers your question.
@davido (1623)
• Canada
30 Jan 09
Okay Rosie, Sensitivity is the word with ladies and being carefull with the words for guys. So few days is not enough to say what you have seen in lady (positive things) Okay so guys a lesson learnt... THANKS
@ana31798 (41)
• United States
29 Jan 09
I think it's perfectly fine to tell the person you are intimate with how you feel. In fact I believe that it is necessary in a relationship to be able to do this.
@davido (1623)
• Canada
30 Jan 09
I think so far the person sees him/her as an intimate friend, unless one of them is not seeing herself or himself as one.... Thanks
@snowy22315 (168439)
• United States
29 Jan 09
I think if you are sincere in what you are saying it is alright to say. I think that if you have that type of relationship with that person and want to say it is alright. You dont want to do too much too soon though because the person might get scared off and you wouldnt want that necessarily. Good Luck.
@davido (1623)
• Canada
30 Jan 09
Okay so its a way not to say too much so the other person dont get scared. Alright, yes good luck. Thanks
• United States
30 Jan 09
Not at all, I think you should encourage the other to tell you how he/she feels and be honest --the world has always been to much into playing games, if you make the person feel uncomfortable for saying how you feel, that is kinda scary, it should make them feel good and want to hear more, and encourage them to say nice things back... flirting is fun with your partner, and to many marriages lose that in the years after the dating seems to stop....LOL