Bad breath; what would you do if you found out that your BF/GF has a bad breath?

@mobhomeir (7558)
Philippines
January 31, 2009 5:53am CST
Bad breath; this would be one of the most disgusting and discouraging thing when your Boyfriend or Girlfriend has it. What will you do if you found out late with boyfriend or girlfriend? Would you have a courage to tell her/him and help what to do? Or would you just disappear without coming back to him/her? As with me, I experienced it once. I found out after a kiss and got turned off. Honestly, I don't have the courage to tell my girlfriend for I was afraid she might get embarassed. I slowly slowed down until our relationship ended. Do you have something to share about bad breath?
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@GAUCI123 (1042)
• Malta
31 Jan 09
Well it is true that is is digusting and it sure discourage kissing each other. Well I will offer him/her a fresh sweet so to leave a better breath :)
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Yes. Pretending that I fond of eating bubble gums. Before I would kiss her I would give her first a candy..hehehe funny isn't it...thanks
@SwtJenlove (1090)
• United States
31 Jan 09
Wow!! well bad breath starts with keeping your mouth clean. Maybe offer a piece of gum lol carry some around in your pocket i guess haha. My son has bad breath in the morning so sometimes i have to get on him about it and tell him to brush his teeth and his tongue because the smell could also come from his tongue. i never knew that up until a few years ago when my dentist told me. it has helped tho because i told my son he doesnt wanna go to school with bad breath so he does make sure now that he does that before leaving the house in the morning for school. just speak up dont be afraid im sure your other half would like to know and that also shows you care and are paying attention to them.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
yeah. you have an idea. about morning breath, I think it's natural. It would just be unusual if you have it permanently. I don't believe someone who has it could not notice it...I could easily tell someone in my family circle who has it but to other people no way..it could be an embarrassing situation for them especially if the concern is my girlfriend....thanks
@nini89 (670)
• India
3 Feb 09
Hi Friend ! For some people it is usual to have the bad breath but they to consult a doctor for this. Bust they may not be aware that there is a bad smell for their breath unless and until some one point out that. My husband used to have but we took the consultation of a doctor and after that he was fine. You could have said about this to her in a soothing way indirectly, to consult a doctor.To whomever she speaks and converse all will feel the same and anyone should inform. Happy posting and have a nice day.
@nini89 (670)
• India
4 Feb 09
Its all about the frienship you maintain and can give a hint about the cause. How also you have left the friendship beacuse of this reason. It is difficult for some people to converse directly the matter. some have the habbit of discussing all matter. Happy myloting.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Yes friend. Every problem has a solution. The only problem is how would find a solution. Like having a bad breath. If it's your husband well it would just be fine cause it's your husband. But what about if it would be just your friend or girlfriend or boyfriend..would you have the balls to say it? Cheers and thanks for your share...
@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
2 Feb 09
I would definitely tell them. I wouldnt beat around the bush with it either, I would be direct about it. I think that it is important to be straight with people, especially when it's someone you are trying to have an intimate relationship with. It may embarrass him/her, but it would definitely embarrass them more if they find out from someone else, or even if they just find out later down the road in the relationship. Honesty is the best way to go when dealing with relationships.
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@_sketch_ (5742)
• United States
3 Feb 09
Well I'm a girl and I would want a bf who would let me know if I have bad breath or a booger hanging out of my nose or spinach in my teeth or something so I could fix the problem. But hey that's just me I guess.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yes I got your point.I just don't have the balls to say it directly to the concern if she would be my girlfriend, I know it would be a big trouble I guess..thanks for your share..I appreciate that...cheers
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
yes...but what about if your boyfriend has it. Do you have a courage to tell it to him? How will you do it? Me? No I don't have the balls to tell her..thanks
@my125125 (818)
• Malaysia
2 Feb 09
Hi Mobhomeir, if I found my girl friend or parent got bad breath, I will tell them the truth about this, this is good for them to know it. And it may concern their health too, may be something wrong with their health, or they should drink more water.
@my125125 (818)
• Malaysia
3 Feb 09
I directly told my girl once, I say " are you busy today? are you drinking less water today? what are you eat today? you had bad breath!"
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yes at least you have a good concern. But are you sure you have the courage to tell it directly to your girlfriend? How will you do it?
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
This is a very funny situation and also serious at the same time. I would suggest that you talk to your partner, assure him/her first that what you about to say is not meant to insult or hurt their feelings but it is said with a good intention at heart, then, simply say it. The initial reaction would be embarrassment, but then assure him/her by giving the person a kiss. Normally, I think there is something wrong with the digestive system so it is best to let him/her know this and give advise to seek medical help.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Wow maybe you're a romantic fellow..I guess you have a good idea too. I guess a you have a simple idea but effective...thanks for that idea
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
:) Thanks.
@lovesummer (1162)
• Malaysia
1 Feb 09
wow... i think it wouldn't happen to me cause i would find out quick about that matter.. hehe.. well if that would happen it depends how bad it is though if that is really a real bad one maybe i will leave him but first i will tell him about it first and try to help him out. if the remedies do not help, then i would probably leave him for good because i can not stand this for the long run and it is no good for both of us for the long run.. but i do believe there are remedies to bad breathe so no worries.. if you love someone i believe everything will work out bad breath is not a big problem.. there must be a cure. happy mylotting
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yes you have a good idea my new friend..I like that..thank for the nice response..
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
1 Feb 09
I have a friend who has bad breath sometimes but I know it is from nervousness when he is close to me. I notice my own breath is a bit sour sometimes since I quit smoking. A friend mentioned it once and I was sooo embarrassed as I had had a very stressful morning with my car breaking down while I was several hours away from home in a fairly remote place. I had nothing to eat or drink and I was anxious as well. I 'd had to wait for several hours for help to arrive. I've been really self conscious about it ever since. How do you tell someone they have stinky breath in a nice way???
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yes it's but natural since somebody told you that. I think your case is conditional since you know already the reason why you have that..I admire you for quitting your smoking vice..about your last question you ask..I don't know because I would be afraid I might get somebody hurt of embarrass, I don't like that friend...Thanks for your nice share..cheers
• India
1 Feb 09
Bad breath is curable! So, if I love my bf/gf, I would help him/her get it cured. Otherwise, I would say that I am not interested in the relationship. :) Cheers and happy Mylotting
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Okay..but how you will help her/him? Do you have the balls to tell it directly to him/her? Me? No. I don't have the nerve to do that..I could maybe find some other means patiently but not directly tell it to the concern..thanks friend..cheers
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
So you ended your relationship with your girlfriend because of her bad breath? Why didn't you just talk to her about it? Anyway, as for me...I wouldn't have trouble telling my boyfriend if he did have bad breath. Were really really close to each other. His like my bestfriend.
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@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
I understand...you might embarrass her...but I guess its just a matter of how and when you say it. Didn't you love her? I mean, its like, it was so easy for you to break up with her.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Yes. Something like that. I turned off I got discourage and slowly cooled down. I just don't know, I don't really have a courage to tell her because I might hurt or embarrass her...thanks friend..
• Jamaica
5 Oct 22
My daughter always tell me when I have bad breath. This was due to a root canal that I did and the tooth broke along with sinusitis. if my boyfriend has bad breath I will gently tell him. I would not leave him for that as it means that the relationship did not have any substance. It could be smelly feet, bad body odor... these things can be easily remedied.
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@askme123 (6150)
5 Oct 22
That is true
@jdyrj777 (6530)
• United States
1 Feb 09
For sure bad breath is a turn off. But why didnt you notice before the kiss? Only after? Very interesting. I would think that by the time you knew each other well enough to play tonsil hockey, you would also know each other well enough to tell the other about the bad breath. Does she have bad breath all the time or what? Are you aware that while a woman is ovulating her breath gets bad? I've heard if people have bad breath even when they are having good dental hygene that it could be a physical ailment causing it.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yes. But in my case (my girlfriend) before I courted her I never smell her breath something bad. Yes. Not until time came that I was able to her mouth and there! YUCK! I guess she had a gastric problem I was sure of that. I just don't have a courage to tell her to avoid embarrassment on her part...Thanks friend for your share, I appreciate it..cheers
• United States
1 Feb 09
It depends on what is causing the bad breath. In some cases it is due to an underlying health problem. Dehydration can cause bad breath, sometimes acid reflux disease... Also, smoking, drinking coffee, eating a lot of garlic... If it's something they can't control (yes, quitting smoking would be something they could control but it's not going to be an instant fix) then there's no point in mentioning it. Either learn to deal with it or they are probably better off without you and you without them. If it is because of where you went for dinner and they are a boyfriend or girlfriend and not just someone you are casually dating, offer them some gum or a mint and hope for the best. Chances are if you offer them the mint, they'll get the point that the triple onion burger they had for dinner wasn't the best idea they'd had all day and swing into a convenience store for a trial size toothbrush and toothpaste combo and hit the restroom before going on with the date.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yes I got your point. We'll maybe that could be possible if the concern would be your best and closed friend because you could have a courage to tell him/her. But what about if that would be your boy or girlfriend and your relation would be just in the state of still knowing each other...and you like him/her so much..heheh, Do you have still the courage to tell her/him? Thanks...cheers
• United States
2 Feb 09
If it was a sparkly new relationship I'd probably take a piece of gum for myself and offer one to him, hoping against hope he'd get the point. Or say something like, "How was your dinner, wanna piece of gum?" Because from me that would sound totally natural as I have a really good (erm bad?) habit of smooshing two completely separate thoughts into one.
@mermaidivy (15395)
• United States
1 Feb 09
Tell him he has a terrible powerful breath :-p sometimes we tease each other in the morning when we wake up but we won't et mad to each other. hehe
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Yes I guess it would be okay if both of you are already closed with each other. The problem is you're both just building an intimate relation...and you are interested with each other..me? I don't have the ball to tell it to the concern party..thanks on your idea..
@relundad (2310)
• United States
1 Feb 09
Usually there is a reason for bad breath, and if its more than just an occassional occurance due to something that was just eaten, there may be a problem. If I cared about the person whether it be more BF, family member or very good friend, I would tell them. I would tell them that I don't know if they know or not but that they may need to get it checked out. Because of my relationship with them, they would know that I mentioned it to help them and not to embarrass them or hurt their feelings. If you share a relationship with someone you should be able to discuss the good, bad and ugly with them.
@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
I believe what you said. But I don't really have a guts to tell my lady about her bad breath..thanks
@shamzy18 (2316)
1 Feb 09
yeah i guess it would be a turn off! I do think though that is not nice dumping a person because of their bad breath or because there not good in bed or something like that because if they knew the real reason they would be hurt. But then again if the relationship was not as deep in the first place i guess it would be ok. lol.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
Well I guess if the smell would be just tolerable for you and if you really love the woman/man then you must find a way to tell the concern about it and help each other to solve it. For me, as far as my experienced concerned I never tried telling it to a woman about her bad breath. I guess I don't have the balls...thanks for your share..
• Pakistan
1 Feb 09
Know buddy ... u dont say directly that u have a bad breadth it may heart him/her very badly and may affected ur love a lil bit ... U should say him/her indirectly that my freinds gf/bf has a bad breadth n its reallty embrassing for her and also mention that u too dont like these sorts of person .
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
2 Feb 09
hehe a good idea, but what if she or he just ignored it knowing that he's just a friend of yours not him or her..she/he don't give a damn...
@noniefam (284)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 09
bad breath: i will tell she/he that their have bad breath then i ask them to go to dentist or buy a gum for their tooth so they will not shame cause their bad breath
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Ohh as easy as that? You can tell instantly that to your girlfriend? I admire your guts if you can do it...thanks for your share...hheheheh
• Japan
1 Feb 09
Offer her some tic-tacs. If that didn`t work I would shove them in her mouth. I lived in Korea for 5 years Kimichi breath is no joke.But most people keep mints and brush their teeth after lunch so it`s not that bad. next time carry some mints in you pocket. Take a couple yourself and then offer her some.
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Yes. Good idea. What if she doesn't like it? hehe thanks
• India
1 Feb 09
i wil just inform her and tell her to use a good mouth spray..............
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@mobhomeir (7558)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
yes a good suggestion...