the one you love or the one who loves you

@AXLAERO (426)
Philippines
January 31, 2009 8:13am CST
if you really love someone and that someone doesn't love you,and there's also someone who loves you but you don't love him/her,who are you going to choose?the one you love or the one who loves you?i've seen a lot of movies who have a story like this.even telenovelas also have the same situation in the story.but what if you're in this kind of situation?i actually dont know the answer if this will happen to me.especially if you really love a person but he/she can't give you the love,care,attention and the sweetness that you want.or maybe this someone also loves someone but not you.then,there is also someone who truly loves you and who's crazy for you.someone who is willing to give you the love,attention,sweetness that you are craving for with that someone you love that doesnt love you?so what will you do?
3 responses
@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
I think i would choose the one who loves me because i think i can manage to fall in love with her as time go by. While if i choose the one i love, i would look like a fool forcing myself to her. No matter how hard i try, it would still be meaningless for her. The one who loves me on the other hand, will always be there whenever i need her and that's quite enough to make me fall for her soon if not now. I may also go crazy with the one i love but i have to face the reality that it will never work out between us unless she has feelings for me too.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
Yah you will look like a fool if you will push your self to someone who does not love you.But some guys/girls are really stubborn.Even someone advice them what to do or which one is a better choice,They will still follow their heart.Sometimes it's easy to say but it's hard to do.Maybe i will choose also the person who loves me.But what if this will happen to me in real life?Am i still going to use my heart ha ha ha.It's really hard to choose.I feel like i am one of those stubborn girls out there lol.....Thank's for your nice response.I will try to think of what you said
@modstar (9612)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
That's the reason why love is unexplainable feeling. We just don't know what we can do and what we are capable of doing when we're in love.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
i agree with you.love is unexplainable.love is something that can makes us crazy.and i really dont want to love anymore lol..thank's again my friend.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
now this is a discussion that i like to voice opinion at. i'll go for THE ONE WHO LOVES ME. why? he can do anything for you just to prove you how much he loves you. he will try everything for you to see that he is worth for you. (just like ogre oops lol) that person will do anything to please you, wait for hours and hours days and nights. will turn their backs even on their family (who does not lie you) just to be with you. eventually you will learn to love this person. it will be a good treat to be loved and pampered.
@AXLAERO (426)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
For me,i really dont know which one is better.But you are right.It's a nice feeling if someone show you some love.Someone who will do everything for you.Someone who will do anything to please you.And most especially,someone who will turn his back on his family just to prove how much he loves you.It's a hard thing to turn back on your family but if the guy will do that,wow that's great.Especially if his family acts like a villain to your relationship and wants other girl for their son just for money ha ha ha.Maybe i will tell my single friends to look for an ogre.....lol.But do you know where to find an ogre?Which swamp ha ha ha.Thanks for giving me an idea..lol.
@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
i have the need to add onemore thing axl. i am a single mom with four kids.... can you see what will happen to us if i pick a guy who i love. he might not love my children like his own. if i will settle for someone who loves me i know for sure that he will be treating my children like his own and accept them with his whole heart.
@allen0187 (33857)
• Philippines
20 Feb 09
i'll always choose the person who loves me. i'm spent (wasted is the appropriate word) on people whom i love and it got me nothing. lol! so yeah, call me a fool, call me selfish but nothing will change the fact that's it's better being loved than being in love. just my thoughts!!! cheers!!!