the one you love or the one who loves you

@xzyzxj (126)
China
January 31, 2009 8:56am CST
hi friends i have a question that which one will you chose ? the one you love or the one who loves you ? i think personally i will chose the person i love, but ...... maybe i can't get my happiness. i saw these question on a site , a bit more people chose the one who loves you . i am puzzled now! what's your opinion ? which one do you think is better? happy mylotting?
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@youless (87145)
• Guangzhou, China
31 Jan 09
It is not so difficult for me to choose. I will select to the one who loves me. I know I am not loving him right now. But since he loves me and be sure he will treat me well. I think I will be moved and then I will love him one day. I love China
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@xzyzxj (126)
• China
1 Feb 09
wo ai China! ~_~
• Canada
31 Jan 09
Hello xzyxzj, That's a hard and interesting question.I'm lucky enough to be with someone i love and loves me back,but i think i would prefere to be with someone who loves me.i'm 31 years old,i don't have time to waste on a person that wouldn't love me.I have to admit though that i've done just that when i was younger and i though i could make him love me and trust me it hurts to be told "i don't love you but i care for you as a friend!". So i'll stick with peoples that love me and will not try to change how someone feel about me Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
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@xzyzxj (126)
• China
31 Jan 09
thank you very much for telling me about that. i think maybe i should reconsider my choice. happy everyday!
@anjel016 (330)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
Well, I already have someone I love so much and loves me back as well. Lol. Anyway back to your question, if I were in that situation I would choose the one who loves me. If I really love the person but he does not love me back, then it would be best if I will just let him have his freedom and choose who will he really loves. As for the one who loves me, I may not love him "today" but surely someday I will learn to love him back. Then if that day comes, everybody happy, right? :)
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@piattos (13)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I'll choose the one I love... i dont care if he doesnt love me... as long as i love the person I know i can find happiness.. it's a choice anway... but it wud feel great if he wud love me back.. hehe and of course this doesnt mean taht im gonna push myself to him or tell him sumthing about my feelings...hehe yuck. :p I wont be happy anway if i wud be wid a person who loves me but i dont really love... he too wont feel gud as well. =)
@xzyzxj (126)
• China
31 Jan 09
that's true! we feel really good when we are with the person we love!
@lovesummer (1162)
• Malaysia
31 Jan 09
i don't know too to be honest. it would make me happy if i choose the one i love. but it make my life easier if i choose the one who loves me. so i hope it is balance love on both sides..i canot get into a relationship if i dont love the other person same for marriage.. cannot say which one is better.. and think relationship wont work for the long run if only one person is in love..
@xzyzxj (126)
• China
31 Jan 09
yes ,the best is that they love each other.
@Ratris (79)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 09
Hi there. I think loved by someone is better. Exactly for women. Cause women fragile than men. When someone loved by other, he / she will give everything. Extremely he/ she sacrified anything to make the lover happy.She/he sacrifice for some money,vehicle,or hilarous house maybe. But he or she doesnt give the love. The lover might just need money. So carefull when you love someone. When you loved by someone, just enjoy and screaming " HAPPY".
@arlerambabu (1080)
• India
1 Feb 09
It's the one who loves me rather than one whom i love. Being loved is the biggest boon
@hotsummer (10308)
• Philippines
1 Feb 09
of course i will definitely the one who loves me than the person that i love. cause i will definitely to learn the person that loves me more than the person i have loved. cause i think that more we feel loved the more we will realized the we have learned to love the person too. and that we can find out in our selves that love is something emotional but something that we learn to do. the one we choose to.
• United States
1 Feb 09
Luckily my husband loves me and I also love him. If I had to choose I would definately choose someone who loves me. If you choose the one you love, it could be a lifelong chase and no catch. At least the one who loves you would probably do anything for you! And would probably stick around instead of coming and going. If you get my drift.
@noniefam (284)
• Indonesia
1 Feb 09
i will choose both. cause if we love someone it will be nice is i love him n he love me. if i love him but he dont love me the sound not great n he love me but i dont love him its sound not great too cause love is for 2 person love each other not only from one side
@markmoney (2868)
• Philippines
31 Jan 09
I will definitely choose the one I love. Since I love her, I'm ready to take all the sufferings and pains that I might get. At the same time, I will do all my best to make her fall in love with me. Actually I will take it as a challenge, if after my hardwork courting her, she noticed that she is starting to have feelings for me, and then she finally fell in love with me, and she became my girlfriend or wife, then that would be a very great achievement. I think it can be the happiest moment of my life, having the one you love fall in love with you. For the other option which is choosing the one who loves me, it's not ideal for me, because it will appear like the girl is the one courting me. And it's really hard for me to fall in love with someone I don't really like. I know there's a possibility but a very little. So I really choose the one that I love. Happy myLotting!