Single no more?!?

@zorlone (411)
Philippines
February 2, 2009 8:55pm CST
Did you wait for 10? 20? 30? Or 40 years before you had a relationship? A boyfriend or girlfriend? Or perhaps, marriage? Do you think those long years of waiting were well spent? And choosing the person you are with right now is the best decision you've ever made (so far)? Do you miss doing things by yourself or you can't imagine a day without your special someone by your side?
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@rsa101 (13337)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Well I started having serious relationship when I was in my 25 already. During my teen years I do remember I wasn't really that serious about having relationship that is why I was really single that time. Then when I was in my 28-30 my outlook inlife changed and decided it's time to settle down and exactly at my 30th bday I git married. I am happy with my life right now. I have a son and a loving wife at that I cannot ask for more.
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@zorlone (411)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
It was worth the wait, wasn't it? Thanks for sharing!
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@rsa101 (13337)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Yes it was... but there are times that my mind would have those what ifs in my life like what if I engage into romantic relationship when I was younger and many other what ifs.... But then past is past and what is important is I am happy and contented with what I have right now.
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@mepaurav (201)
• United States
3 Feb 09
I have not dated in my life.May be i was not interested in any body else or not ready for relationship.Now i want to be in relationship but now i dont know how to get into it.I like to have long lasting relationship.I joined couple of dating website but they ask lots of money.One factor for joining mylot was to find someone special here but i dont think its working here.Astrologer say i will meet my dreamgirl through social network.I am not sure he was talking about mylot.I am from Nepal and here parents decide bride for the groom.I dont want to be in relationship based on tradition.
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@zorlone (411)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Hi mepaurav! I have been dating a lot and one thing I can share with you... There are a lot of women out there and they may or may not be the same as you are, but, once you get to know each and everyone of them, your head will hurt because you will not be able to chose which one is the best for you. So, follow your heart and pray that you will find the person you are looking for. A good friend told me that that person is already in front of you and you're just too blind to see. :D Have a nice day man!
@rberon1985 (5394)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Hi zorlone, I have checked your profile and I found out that you are a filipino. Welcome here in mylot. As of this moment I am in a relationship. We have been together for 6 years. We are already leaving together but we do not have kids yet. We still have lots of plans to do. I am not single since for the past six years. Yes, you are right, there are some things that we miss to do when we are single. I can still do the things that I am doing when I am still single. My girlfriend is not that strict. She can still do what she wants to do.We have a give and take relationship. that stays as longer. what about you?are you also single?
@zorlone (411)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Yup Filipino inside and out! It is good that your girlfriend and yourself have an understanding when it comes to the things you want to do! Am single but am going to do something about it! He he he!
@donsky14 (5964)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
I had my first boyfriend when I was 13...so I guess I waited for 10 yrs. lol. But we broke up already. [I'm 23 now] Then I had another bf when I was 14. After him, I waited for another 5 yrs to have another bf...we didn't last a month. I waited for another year to have another bf...and we lasted for two months. For my boyfriend now, I didn't have to wait...lol...I ended my last relationship for him. And yeah, it was all worth it. We've been together for 3 yrs...and, I'm really happy with him. His the guy that I've been looking for. That I'm sure.
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@zorlone (411)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Good to hear that! I'm sure he feels the same with you! Thanks!
• Brazil
3 Feb 09
Actually i'm walking to this way and i hope to be the person that will be by my side for all my life. I've waiting for this person for more than 18 years and i believe i can't be wrong right now. Like the people say: "she completes me" and "she makes me special". I have no doubt about she and i wonder she can fell the same for me. She is really special for me and i hope what i'm felling is really love beucase i don't want to lose her even for a minute. Regards from Brazil, Scorpionok. sry the bad english xD
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@zorlone (411)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Dude, I'd do anything to be in your shoes right now! Maybe it's the season or it's just plain lovesickness, if ever there is a term. Not that I am sick of it, it's more like, am longing for it. Am sure I'll get there soon. In my own time! Cheers form the Philippines!