Preoccupied.........

@maean_19 (4662)
Philippines
February 3, 2009 12:52am CST
I had been staring mylot for almost an hour now and can't do nothing. I checked on discussions that interests me and supposed to respond on them, but I end up clicking the back tab and look for another discussion. My mind isn't working and I do not know why. Am not thinking about something or someone either why I have to be like preoccupied. Whew! I hate it when am like I want to do something when I can't.
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12 responses
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
Times like that happens from time to time. It seems that your need to work on something and you know the need or the purpose why you have to work on it but it seems that you are too restless to do it. I have experience this too sometimes. It could be that you are being bothered by something or your heart is not with what you are doing. Just set your focus friend and this will surely help. Have a great day!!!
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@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
5 Feb 09
I think that was it. Thanks for responding my friend....Have a nice day ahead!
@gracie04 (4555)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
It happens to me too.. and i hate it when i'm preoccupied with not so important things.. i really like to work 100x harder in order to achieve my online goals but what can i do? my health and family issues seem to bother my life.. i'm hoping and praying that i would be able to have a normal life again..
@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
8 Feb 09
It seems you are helpless when you are preoccupied of not so important things or you are thinking of something you do not know. You want to finish something and you can't. Just pray and everything will be alright. Have a nice day!
@StarBright (2799)
• United States
3 Feb 09
LOL. Sounds like you are trying to do something that your heart is really not into at this time. Another analogy, "I want something to eat, but I don't quite know what." Another name for that may be "BORED."
@maean_19 (4662)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Oh yes, that's another term........I hate this kind of phase and time are just wasted, but can't do anything than deal with it. Preoccupied about nothing...
@regal_aeros (2606)
• Singapore
4 Feb 09
oh yes. I'm like that too... i just guess, you need a break. There are days when i just don't want to do anything at all. I'm not even motivated to respond to discussions that under normal circumstances i would reply to. i would say take a break. Stare into blank space or watch some TV. Or maybe sleep. Works for me.
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@messageme (2821)
• United States
4 Feb 09
I have had those days many of times. I will end up shuting off the computer and either go back to it at a later time or I will just wait until the next day. Because usually those discussions I can't find nothing to say to I will the next day or even if I take a break from it. I think sometimes our brains are just trying to tell us we have had enough and we need to give it a break. Hope things go better for you!! Happy Mylotting!!
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@underdogtoo (9599)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
Sometimes it happens but rarely when I am on mylot.There is always something going on that makes me want to jump in and participate. Cheers!!
• Malaysia
3 Feb 09
Preoccupying is a good time to look for good things with new objective. That is why the definition for preoccupy does defined two (2) options; 1. to absorb or engross to the exclusion of other things. 2. to occupy beforehand or before others. Meaning that, you're looking for something totally new or new extension to the existing in some respect for your inspiration and aspiration.
• United States
3 Feb 09
I watch movies and mylot at the same time lol. Sometimes I can think of more to say this way.
• India
3 Feb 09
It sometimes happen to me also when I am disturbed due to other reason. I cannot concentrate. It is really embarrassing. Then I try to make myself relaxed by doing other easy things.
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@winzpc (2356)
• Indonesia
3 Feb 09
It sometimes happen to me too. It little frustate me and I usually keep away it by searching a new user and sending them a friend request. Keep post Happy myLotting...
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@roniroxas (10576)
• Philippines
3 Feb 09
why not take a rest first. or eat something that can make you happy. sometimes we have a feeling like there is nothing that can be enjoyed. its like everything is a bore. drink something you love drinking. i love drinking coffee when i feel like that. or eat french fries . or a cold fruit can make me feel somehow good. or take a rest. lie down and give yourself a couple of minutes.
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@mimpi1911 (25454)
• India
3 Feb 09
Same here maean. Of late my mind is just not working, I keep groping for discussions and cannot write my thoughts. I think we all pass through this stage. Yes we are pre occupied and need to relax and relieve the stress. JUst breathe deep and relax and I am sure you will come out of this block soon. Trust e, I have!
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