How can i get her back?

United States
February 3, 2009 4:08pm CST
i want my ex-girlfriend back i love her but she likes this other guy
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5 responses
@jesbellaine (4157)
• Philippines
4 Feb 09
Hello There! Honestly, there is no way in getting her back if she loves or wants another man. I guess, if you have done your part already like talking to her or showing her how sincere you are in getting her back then the last thing to do is to give her space and time to think. If she really opted to love another man then you need to let her go because you will not be happy if you continue to pursue her. Focus on your life and other people who are there for you (friends, family and relatives) so that you can forget her slowly. Who knows, you are not really meant for each other and the right lady will come in the right time. Thank you for the discussion! Happy mylotting and have a great day! Cheers!
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@laydee (12815)
• Philippines
15 Feb 09
It could have been possible to get back with her if she hasn't found someone else (better than you) but since she has already found someone else, it's best that you just move on and forget her. If she can find someone that fast, that simply means she didn't love you that much in the first place. Remember, it's better to be with someone who truly loves you than waste time pursuing someone who doesn't. Good luck!
• India
4 Feb 09
Well, you havent given any details for me to properly advise you. But if you guys had a mutual break up and if she has moved on, then there is no point in going behind her. She likes someone else now and let her have her chance at a romance. Dont ruin it for her. And do try to move on. I am sure the girl meant for you is still out there waiting for you. I am aware of the fact that this is not what you want to here right now and that you might even rate my post as negative, but trust me when i say that in time, everything is going to be alright. If you really want her that bad, then you can go upto her and try talking to her about your feelings for her. If she reciprocates your feelings, then well and good. Else do a gracious exit from her life and start rebuilding your own life.
• China
4 Feb 09
hello!If she doesn't love you,maybe you should let her go.You mean she loves other man ,so if you love her really,give her free.Some day ,she find the man she loves makes her unhappy,she will come back.
@blueSoul (277)
• Romania
16 Feb 09
I totally agree with ketybhagat. If the girl doesn't love you anymore, its not the end of the world... you need to get over it. If she doesn't appreciate you for who you are, than she doesn't deserve you. Don't worry, there are many girls out there...
@blink182m (182)
• Philippines
15 Feb 09
Its not easy to win her back but of you love her try to do what a man should do court her again, but if she dumps you then thats the right time that you should move on. Their a plenty of fish in the sea why catch a small one when there are many big fish out there. If you have obsess with your ex-lover that would be a different story. hehehe
@ketybhagat (4125)
• India
6 Feb 09
If she is not interested in you, forget her. It is for your own good. She likes some other guy, so let her be. Loving is giving freedom to the person. If she feels no feelings for you, then its best to move ahead in life. You are young and will find the right person to share your life with. Dont let desperation pull you down. Cheer up.